Have you tried saying goodbye to a friend?
By ChuckGel
@ChuckGel (244)
Philippines
February 3, 2007 4:43am CST
Have you once tried saying goodbye to a very close friend of yours? How'd you feel?
I've just asked this question for i was once been into this kind of situation. And honestly it is so depressing. I somehow feel after her departure the emptiness that then make me sleepless in a number of nights. Its really a hard thing to lose a friend...So, treasure all the moments you have with those persons you love like your friends for you didn't know when will they say goodbye to you...
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15 responses
@badreligi (224)
• Indonesia
3 Feb 07
I do understand with your situation, because i ever experienced that feeling in my life, when i have to say goodbye to my really best friend when he was moved to other town to follow his familly. That's really difficult, honestly it makes both of us cry, too many good memory happened, but it's better than when i lost my friend when he die, and i have no time to say goodbye.
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@Bangalorean (1282)
• India
3 Feb 07
Was forced by destiny to bid goodbye to one of my closest friend, when he passed away. He was suffering from cancer of the brain.
It was then I realised how difficult it was to come with terms, after bidding goodbye to a closest friend, after all friends are by our choice, isnt it?
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@vianney_girl16 (55)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
i've tried also saying that words and its really hard... you don't really know how to feel... and you want to stop time when you're sayong goodbye////
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@yvonitz_marian (117)
• Philippines
3 Feb 07
i have tried it..i was betrayed, how much more saying goodbye to me..i feel it seems i'm all alone...it's hard to find another one that is more to be like your friend..but i know that somehow there should be part ways whatever you have- friends, love ones and etc..it's really hard..and also it hurts...
@annepretty (584)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
I did..it was at the airport in malaysia..I said goodbye to my bestest friend because i was going back to the philippines..We werent sure if we would ever see each other again because it was his last few wks in malaysia and would be going to Greece for work..We had an argument or a misunderstanding before that so we were kinda awkward that day..But saying goodbye is always a sad thing to do.
@ChuckGel (244)
• Philippines
19 Jul 07
Saying goodbye to a friend have different types. One of which is when you'll bade goodbye knowing what will be the distance between the two of you after that time? Shall you still have a chance of seeing him/her after that time you've told him/her GOODBYE?
@terminator7879 (155)
• India
4 Feb 07
its very hard to say goodbye to your loved ones but you have had to do that its a part of life dude and we have to accept it.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
23 Oct 07
yes i had to.
Once i thought he is my best friend.
I had to say him goodbye as I was moving to new city.
But after I shifted, it came to my notice that initially he was trying to avoid me and then beghaved very badly with me.
Now i thik saying srry was hard, but the way he behaved was more bad.
@cutekristine (526)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
Yes i did expereince saying goodbye to a close friend. We were in our 5th grade back then when her family migrated to New York. I felt really sad because we were already classmates even when we started our kindergarten. We spent a lot of times together and shared a lot of things. She was also sad leaving but she has no choice. It was really difficult for me back then to adjust to the new situation. But after how many years she came back here and visited us, and with the latest technologies, even shes back in new york we still continue to communicate.
@chrissymadam_simple (173)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
I really hate goodbyes....I don't wanna say goodbye to my close friends...because for me it's like you'll never gonna see them anymore....though i know that a time will come that they have to leave me and they will not see me anymore....still I won't say goodbye....coz I know in my heart I will not leave them...they'll be staying there forever...i will still see them there ....