Do you think I'm wrong.Quit crying over that man and take care of your child!
By Justme2007
@Justme2007 (1848)
United States
February 4, 2007 12:00pm CST
I feel that if a woman has a baby and the guy doesn't want to take care of him you should go get child support and do what you have to do.
No one should let a person bring them down where they don't take care of their children men and woman will leave you high and dry and tell you ,you need me to make it. Woman please stand up and handle your business.
Yes we miss what we thought was good but your children didn't ask to be here and please don't kill the children to have a different man in your life who don't want children not worth it. God bless
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7 responses
@linda345 (2661)
• Canada
5 Feb 07
When I first left my first husband I was horiffied. I had to go on welfare and I left half the cheque in the bank to pay the second half of the months bills. The jerk took the money from the bank ( I forgot his name was still on the account shame on me). I had no money for diapers, rent or food. Luckly they gave me more. I got a lawyer and sued the jerk. I got child support and he had to suffure coming up with the money every month but it wasn't my problem. He made the babies, so he could support the babies.
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@Justme2007 (1848)
• United States
5 Feb 07
Thats right make them pay I say. Some memn even take from you to give to another woman and her child.Makes you angry doesn't it.
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@linda345 (2661)
• Canada
6 Feb 07
when my kids got older my ex got involved in this relationship. He had a kid with this women and she had a kid from another relationship. They reduced my support to support these two children. I don't see the fairness in this because my kids where conceived first and he should have had to support the first and formost.
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@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
5 Feb 07
i completely agree too men come and go but those children will always be there and the need there mother... my kids always comes first before anyone. i say take care of your children...if you run across a guy that loves children fine great but if you dont they are not worth your time
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@Justme2007 (1848)
• United States
5 Feb 07
That is for sure in the end the children will know who cared for them and return the favorite when you are old.
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@sweets9900 (726)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I agree. I am a single parent of three. My childrens fathers' never stepped up to the plate. I have to do what I have to for my kids. I don't have a problem with it and I do the best I can without their fathers' help.
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@Justme2007 (1848)
• United States
5 Feb 07
Thats right because I do the same thing for my children
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@dreamingmyth (594)
• United States
9 Feb 07
cant agree with you more! i made my sons father leave when our son was 2 months old! he was not being responsible or even helping me take care of our son! in the end it was the best decision i ever could have made for my son! the children should ALWAYS come first!!
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@cabergren (1181)
• United States
6 Feb 07
When my son was younger my husband and I got a divorce. I always thought that he would stand up and do the right thing and help us out. I was very, very wrong. He didn't help at all for a couple of years. It took lots times to court to finally get some money out of him. But in the meantime I had to step up and take care of things. To this day my son loves his father, but he knows when he has a problem or needs to talk he always comes to me instead of his father.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
9 Apr 07
You said it girl and I totally agree with you on that. I found myself doing something like that when my husband was going to leave us, I was thinking about him all the time and not about my daughter.
I finally realized that he wasn't that important anymore and that my daughter is. So, I started to pay more attention to her than him and in the end he turned around and started to think about us too. We're still together and things are swell. I have learned to put my daughter first and not him. He isn't worth all that trouble at all.
