How would you feel if you found out a long time relationship was a fraud?
By COLLIS2
@COLLIS2 (479)
United States
February 4, 2007 3:39pm CST
How would you feel if you just found out a long time relationship which maybe you married or were living with turned out to be a phony. Like you didn't know who they really were, or found out they were merely using you for some advantage they could get by being with you?
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7 responses
@traceyleeappel (510)
• Australia
4 Feb 07
I never been in that type of situation myself but I do beleive it would be awlful. You will never be able trustthem again , if so it would take a hell alot time to do so ! I will be asking alot of questions also , who are you would be one !
@vikramdilse (76)
• India
7 Feb 07
it would crush ur heart to the core....tears would be the answer to ur own questions n nothing else....but even later u cant stop thinking about that person it juz stays may be she is dishonest but ur love for her is true....and love is not a give n take policy if u love someone be happy for it even if she doesn't love u...
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@weemam (13372)
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4 Feb 07
I think I would be very angry then feel betrayed and very hurt , I would probably wonder at first if I had done something wrong , Then I would sit and disect everything in my head ( as I do ) and realise I had done nothing wrong and start to fight back xx good luck
@mansha (6298)
• India
5 Feb 07
As for whatr i will feel I will feel drained out of trust and love but what I will do, I will get rid ofg the sucker and move on. I will kick his b*** in case I ever meet him and may be tell the every other girl all about him,whoever in his life tries to make a relationship with him.
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@willocfc (963)
• Australia
6 Feb 07
I would go through a range on emotions, i would be hurt that someone would stoop so low to do that to me, i would be embarrassed to all my friends and family to find out. I would be ashamed that i didnt figure it out, i would be angry and want revenge, i would go through every emotion there is.
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@Only1Andrea (796)
• United States
5 Feb 07
I would be totally and completely upset. I don't think that I could forgive a person like that although I know I would have to, but that would be hard. It would make it hard to trust the next person because you have been so deceived and betrayed.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
4 Feb 07
I have been in this situation and let me tell you, it is awful and it destroyes all your belifes. It is so hard to ever trust again...
i got out of it and today I am with someone who I know is completely honest and I wish that NOONE had to go through anything like this, ever again!
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