Gays !!

@nicu1985 (587)
Romania
February 4, 2007 5:56pm CST
Do you think gay people are loosers because they weren't persistent enough to find the right woman?
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12 responses
• United States
6 Feb 07
You have to be really ignorant if you actually believe that. Not being able to find a partner does not make a person a loser, gay or straight. Besides being gay is not a choice they got to make.If that was the case then why do you supposed there are so many people who actually try not to be gay. They actually engage in relationships trying to convince themselves and others that they are straight. I think they should be left alone to live their lives how they see fit. Someone else being gay does not affect you being straight so why should you care how someone else chooses to live their life. what exactly is your opinion on this?
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@nicu1985 (587)
• Romania
13 Feb 07
Have a look over PIITZY 's answer. Do you agree with her explanation?
• Bermuda
6 Feb 07
*caugh* yes *caugh*
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• United States
6 Feb 07
is there aa reason you are not able to proudly state your opinion. While I think your opinion is wrong I also think it is dishonest of you to feel the need to disquise your answer. As if people aren't going to notice your ignorance. I also notice you gave no explanation as to why you feel that way. what makes you think they are losers just because they're different? another thing...what gives you the right to judge someone else that way? Maybe someone else thinks youre a loser because of your ignorance, do you believe that to be a fair judgement?
• United States
6 Feb 07
People are gay because they are born that way. Did you just suddenly wake up one morning and decide that you were going to be straight? If you can honestly say, yeah, I didn't know what I wanted, but then I just made a decision, and now I'm straight! then well I could believe your argument, however, since I know you didn't choose to be straight, then I will continue to believe that your way of thinking is ignorant. Gays don't choose it, they are born that way, and live the way they are programmed to do.
@nicu1985 (587)
• Romania
6 Feb 07
Do you believe in god?
• Canada
6 Feb 07
i've read all of your responses i don't agree with you. if you don't beleive they were just born gay how do you know this. what is your froof. do you know anyone who has just decided to be gay cause women make him mad or don't understand him. most men who i know that have given up on women just stay single and don't turn gay. I'm a lesbian and i'm attracted to women. so i can say that i know i was born this way. i have not had bad experiences with guys and have so many guy friends that i'm really closed to. so why am i a lesbian if i wasn't born this way, what is your theory in my situation?
@nicu1985 (587)
• Romania
6 Feb 07
I think in you case it's a matter of what you like, you feel more closed to women then to men. When I was at college boys didn't support me and I only had girls around me,my friends were only girls. Is your situation similar with mine?
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• Canada
18 Feb 07
actually i hung out with the guys. i had a couple close girl friends but not many. my best friend was a gay guy, and all the other guys i hung out with were the tough guys.
@Petrakkos (310)
• Cyprus
5 Feb 07
i think the gays are different from us from their nature
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@seenkung (425)
• Malaysia
5 Feb 07
I think so.
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@runsgame (2031)
• India
5 Feb 07
it seems to be visible in this sense if you yourself standing on the opposite direction . but actually it is not like that . they are the real winners in LIFE
• India
6 Feb 07
Thats a wrong thing to say nobody becomes a gay or a lesbian by choice.
• United States
6 Feb 07
I don't know why people or gay nor will I ever understand, but to call them losers is not right. Just because the live a different lifestyle does not mean they are losers.
@nicu1985 (587)
• Romania
6 Feb 07
I didn't say what I believe. I've just put a question and I said it before. I just want to find out other opinions about this subject. If you read all the comments you'll get my point.
@Laydee83 (275)
• Atlanta, Georgia
6 Feb 07
1st off, I'm a lesbian and this post disturbs me. Personally, like someone said above, I do not think people are BORN gay or lesbian. It is a choice you make, but not something you can change. This is MY opinion. So you mean to tell me, you think I couldn't find the RIGHT man? HA! I bet I could if I wanted to. But that is NOT what my heart says. No one is a loser, unless you MAKE youself become one. Now that you can manage!
• United States
5 Feb 07
Gay people are just born that way. *shrugs*
13 Feb 07
please grow up. you insult the 1q of a mouse