Living with Brother: Pain in the A**

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I have been living with my brother for some time. And it's been one difficult mess. Well, its not like this the whole time but maybe almost 85% of the time, i get frustrated and all. He is still studying and I am mostly at home tending to our small store. My husband is working abroad so he sents the money for the expenses. My brother lives with me and does nothing to help. He sits in front of the pc more than I do and use it all day long without regard of how much electricity i will be paying after. He gets angry if I tell him to let the pc rest for sometime. he does not clean the house. I see his books cluttered on the dining table. I see his shoes here and there. His room is way bigger mess. Never cleans it at all. Ever! He is gets everything free from roof over his head and the food in the fridge and the use of electricity and water. Plus his gf stays here alot of times too. I tell him how i feel about things and he just tells me I should just let him be. I told him Im helping him with all, lodging and food expenses already. I told him im paying for everything so at least give me some consideration or respect. Then he tells me later He didnt ask me to pay for everything or that eh didnt ask me to help. grrr! Pisses me off and I just wnat to wring his enck at times. To make matters worst, he told my parents he wants to move out. But since its additional expenses for my parents, they think it isnt a good idea. So now they tell me I should adjust to my brother. that we should get along. That I shouldnt argue with him. Is that right? This is my house. My rules and they tell me I need to adjust to them? Im paying for everything for them and they tell me I am wrong to treat and say those things to my brother? Really? Take note: my parents asked me in the first place to just stay here and not move either before this happened because they want my brother monitored and all. And now that I am indeed monitoring my younger brother, they come back to be and tell me im wrong after my brother compalins to them?%^&%*^(!!