How far will you go to have your own kids?

For me, both parents are responsible in order to bear a child. For some, a child is very important to be consider as family to be complete. On my experience, we had hard time concieving and we undergo many medical procedures just to bear a child. It took us two years of trying. I even discussed with him that the last thing we will do is adopt. I prayed hard for this. Last year, im on the peak of my career and made a big decision to resign and give more attention on my medical procedures and to my husband. I sacrificed our finances and willing to give up everything just to have a child. Now, my baby is 2 months old and its worth it to give up everything just to have her.

I can only answer this question for myself, of course, but I think that the only way I will ever bring a child into this world is if I end up marrying someone who is very passionate about having children. And even then, I really am not sure if I want to have more than one child. It just seems to hard to have the means to raise more than one child in this day and age, and plus I was an only child myself and liked it that way, even though I do often wonder if I would have become more outgoing if I had had siblings around me. Anyway, what i am saying is, for the love of my husband I _would_ seriously consider having a child. That is how much love means to me. If I found the true love of my life, I would certainly want to do anything for that person. I am not sure if I could agree to have a lot of children, though. I just can't see doing that with my life. I would hate to break up a relationship over it, but if I met someone and they absolutely wanted to have like 5 children, I don't see how I could ever manage that.