What Kind of Girlfriend are You?
By pearl1003
@pearl1003 (668)
Philippines
February 6, 2007 7:10am CST
Are you mean? BAD? selfish? kind? loyal? FaithFul? genErous? Very loving? HonEst? What kind of girlfriend are you? Do you hold your boyfriend tightly? Are you possessive type of partner? Are you numb? dumb? I am sweet and loving. I care a lot about my partner. I'm concerned about his life, "is he going the right path?" I see to it that my guy is happy and free when he's with me. And I make sure that he knows well that I deserve respect and honesty. If my guy is not happy with me anymore, I have to free him. I don't have to hold on for him when he's not happy with me. Love is important in a relationship. If it's not there anymore, we have to let go. I am open to whatever comes between me and my partner. That's how I love someone, I'm willing to let go when it's the right time.
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@ronslove (481)
• Philippines
9 Feb 07
I also have the same outlook when it come to being a girlfriend.I give my all, and if the guy don't deserve what I'm doing then I have to let go of him. It's easier to let go of someone whom who have hurt you than letting go of someone whom you have hurt.Afterall, you are doing your best and he's the one who will regret of losing you.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
10 Feb 07
yup. but sometimes, we tend to be blind hoping that one day our boyfriend will change for the better. but usually, they don't. i have been patient with my exes before. i really thought that a miracle would happen and i would wake up one day finding that they've change. but they don't. i let go of a person when i know i can no longer give more, it's in a "surrender, two hands up" stage for me. meaning, i can no longer take the situations he'd been giving me. i do have a long rope of patience. but patience isn't to be tested forever.
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
10 Feb 07
whew! well, my boyfriend and i had a little discussion just this morning about equality and freedom. since we grew up in different countries, it's a little issue on us because we look at it differently.
he's more of an "okey" kind of guy which i do appreciate. but i am the opinionated one. when he says something especially about what he wants to do, i really say what i wanna say. no if i feel like i don't want it. and yes, if it's okey for me. while he always tells me "go on. do what you know will make you happy."
we're so different in many ways. but it does not mean we love each other less. we have respect towards each other that's why we're open to discussions like that. we're both open to topics and it's okey if we discuss sometimes. for as long as we can resolve the issue together the same day.
i am a jealous type of girlfriend. and i am slowly trying to lessen my jealous side. i know i can trust my man and i find him so loyal. but since we live so oceans away, i feel scared about lots of instances that might happen. but well, we're holding on and we're keeping the relationship alive. and that's what matters most. for as long as we're doing things together, we'll be okey.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
20 Apr 07
I consider myself the nicest woman any man would ever be with. I am caring and just give so much of myslef and not expect anything in return. Sometimes, people use that against me and treat me really bad. So, I wonder if I should continue to be a nice person somedays.