Lingerie

sure dressing up is great, but found that for the most part it was all about what the man wanted and as soon as you spent all the time finding a really sexy outfit that you could comfortably lay in and it made you look really hot, the pants are dropped and he's trying to yank those sexy panties right off of you...then its over before it started....asking him to dress up is quite a fantastic adventure as well....just watch him wear those banana faced undies and see him dance in a swinging motion from the top of the bed while you laugh histerically and get slapped in the face by it only to scream to the bathroom that now you've just lost a contact....ha ha reeeaallll funnnn stuff that is

I think anything you do to make changes or spice things up in a marriage is a benefit to your marriage, If you don't do something different once in a while chances are things will become routine.