Do you like being compared to other people?

I like the others successful man said "Be your self". If you are being compared with someone, you might be better or worse. Anyway, be yourself is the best if wanted to be success. You might try to follow the other people step, but you must do it with your own way. Get it?? For example, every people has their talents, and not everyone can do a particular thing better that you do, because you have a specific talent.

I don't like to be compared to other people, even if they were my siblings. It irritates me. Sometimes I would be compared to my younger sister and I would politely tell them not to do that because we are two different persons.

It really hurts doesn't it! I have spent most of my life feeling like that but now I have decidied I'm me and if people would rather talk to the prettier, more talented, taller person they they can go talk to them instead of me. I am a person and there are a lot worse people in this world than me, if I have to listen to how I am not good enough I just tell epople to go talk to someone who is then. It comes as such a shock that they apologise and are mre careful about putting me down to my face in the future.

Definitely not. I dont want me to be compared with others. All people are not he same. Each one has his/her own attributes. Comparing one with the other makes him/her lose his/her identity.

Of course I don't like being compared to other people. I am NOT anyone else, I am myself. I didn't get treated much like that as a kid, but I had 2 brothers and one was always being compared with the other. What happened to me wasn't that I was compared to them, or to cousins or anyone else, but my parents had some idea of what they wanted me to be, and THAT's what I had to stand up to. I didn't turn out the way they wanted me to, and they held that up in front of me, instead of trying to learn who I really was...

I came from a large family and my parents were careful never to compare us kids. I'm grateful for that. I do know that my friend's mom always compares her to me, which drives my friend crazy!

I do not like being compared to other people as I like just being myself. I would rather be known for me and not someone else or for doing things like someone else. I think being compared to another person can put a lot of burden or stress on a person, sometimes it may be good but many times it can be bad as well. I have been compared to other people before and it made me very uncomfortable. Fortunately this does not happen anymore.

nope i don't like be compare do other people

NO! However, people are always going to compare you to others, whether you like it or not. Sometimes, however, people are simply making an effort to either encourage you towards your potentials or get on your very last nerve! (Laughs)

no noat all, it isa very bad habit being compared to other people, i have got my own skills and abilities and what my others have may be different from others.my mom used to tell me frequently look at him,look at her, he is so smart why u cant be like hers or him. iam sure that ihave got my own abilities and can come out with flying colours in my field.

as a child i was always compared with other kids. my mom's friend's kid, cousins and sometimes even to my own brother. i hate it with passion. it is very demeaning and hurtful. no one should ever do that, especially to a child.

I think the best comparison is the comparison to self. I like that, but comparison to others is something I would hate.

They said that its either the eldest or the youngest gets the more attention from parents and that is also how I feel, I am the 2nd child of 3 and I feel that my younger sister is the favorite of my mom and so I have jealous feeling towards her. she is even more goodlooking than i am, she can sing verywell, so what I did i focused myself in study and as much as possible i dont engage in a discussion wherein she is there because i feel insecure when everybody favors her. But as I grew older I understand things, because i focused on my study I was able to finish college and she did not because of friends. My mother became proud of me and then I found out that my sister is also jealous of me that is why she rebels in her study. The lesson here is that we are all not the same and should not be compared to each other. We have different personalities and it is our choice if we want to excel in what we do to become known or popular.

i dont think its proper to compared one another no matter what it takes, coz we are born created equal.....

I had been compared witha lot of people in my life but, this has not made me loose my self respect. I just hear it from one year and take it out from another because what I had faced in my life no one had faced and it is too easy to compare two persons but difficult to walk in the other person's shoes. i would advise you to just ignore all such comparisons.

When comparing things whether it be people or anything else I dont think it is fair to either party. People are different and every person is unique and have their own personality so I dont like to be compared to peolpe and I wouldnt think people would like being compared to me either. Let everyone be their own person and not compare them to others.

i cant remember a single situation that i was being compared by my mother to my relatives or to anybody on that aspect..but i do like to give my opinion on that thing...personally i dont like to be compared to anyone else..coz we are unique in every aspect of our personality, and thinking...and comparison does not make anything better , it may get worse...

No matter what we do, we can never please everybody. Others will always have something unpleasant to say about us. It's human nature. I have had my numerous experiences of this sort... but then I have learend to live with it. What I can suggest would be: even if others compare us with somebody else...it is best for us to not listen to what they say, unless you take it as a positive criticism. As long as you are not comparing yourself with anybody, you can still say you are at peace with yourself.

I was always being compared with my cousins, they all have high power jobs, fancy houses, lovely kids, perfect lives. I could never measure up to those expectations, which has left me with a inferiority complex and low self esteem. Personally I feel it is wrong to make such comparisons, but I guess it's human nature to do so

Of coourse I don't like to compare me to other person. I believe that each of us have different attitude and traits. But compare myself to other, I think I hate that! maybe if I will be the role model and compare myself to other as a good person, I think that's fine with me. haha!