why the hell i don't get responses ?
By anshnav
@anshnav (479)
India
February 7, 2007 9:35am CST
i don't know what is wrong ,why does'nt any one respond to my discussions. If this is the case then i think i will be leaving my lot very soon....
7 responses
@saintz87 (439)
• Singapore
7 Feb 07
I have similar experiences, posting dozens of discussions, i mean really interesting ones. But here are zero, 1 or few responses only. I only have 8 respones most for my discussions, and i have lik dozens of them. Feeling discouraged, i feel that i should not focus on making new discssions, instead, i think i should focus on responses for people, after all, i want to share my opinion to others, as well as contributin to the community. Thousands of new discssions are made every hour, i feel that we should not indulge ourselves in it so much, there are only like 4-5 discussions we see every few seconds, its there for few mins, and in another min, it is replaced by a new one. I think as new members, we should focus on other areas, hope you really stay and post your valuable respones to those we really need it.
2 people like this
@raveemenon (1071)
• India
7 Feb 07
Just look around. all foolish topics that speaks of ,which color, which book,which place which mobile are getting overwhelming response whereas the nice and serious ones get ignored. Many People are here to make some extra bucks and they do not have time to think and brain storm. Make your topics simple and popular and make more friends . you will get moderate response. then one more word. many one line responses are no way going to help you. so be contended. see now you got better replies. take a lessons from this. good luck.
@estherlou (5015)
• United States
4 Mar 07
When I first joined mylots, there were about 40,000 members. Just a couple of months later now, we are over 75,000 people here! That means tons of discussions are started every minute. It just takes time for people to find your discussions. You have to have patience. I will tell you though, that using language might turn a lot of people off and they'll pass you by. Just post interesting and well-thought out discussions and you'll have no problem. And every time you put a response to someone that answered one of your discussions, your discussion gets bumped up to new again, so more people might notice it.