I hate it when my boyfriend makes comments on how good other girls look!

A physical attraction does not necessarily mean an emotional attraction. In other words, he may find a female attractive yet that does not mean he loves her. I know that little surge of jealousy that may rise in you when you hear that but just try to ignore it. Although he shouldn't be saying that in front of you, if you know you both love each other there isn't much of a problem. It may be annoying to hear it but don't mention it to him or it might lead to an argument. So as I've said before, all I can recommend is ignoring the comments.

Do exact;ly that. Even though you're not that way, nexttime your're together, make a comment about how good a guy looks (even if you don't really think he's cute!) That should driuve him crazy or at least get you a reation. When that time comes, let him know how you feel. Tell him that's how you feel when he makews those commentrs. or you can do that without making the comment about the other guy. My point is, let him know it bothers you. Don't keep it inside.

I'm not sure why so many people are commenting that it's okay and no big deal. I would not see an issue if he did it once in awhile. but a man acting like that is not only immature but completely disrespectful. Even if he sees a pretty girl he should keep it to himself and treat you as if your the only one he has eyes for. Does he tell you how beautiful or cute you are or just the other girls?

Hmm yeah, a lot of guys don't realize that that bothers girls. You could just tell him to knock it off and if he doesn't, either deal with it or move past it. As long as he's not cheating on you, its not that big of a deal. I understand how it can make you feel though. Although, it is a good way to see what your guy thinks is hot/attractive/sexy so that maybe you can try doing some new things yourself.

I think it is a natural feeling which everybody will feel if the boyfriend comments on other girls look he should know that he should not comment he should be faithful to you I think you can make you rpoint clear he should not hurt you in anyway, he must know ways to make you feel good otherwise such things will make you sad and affect the relationship, I think you can tell him straight or you can start commenting on other men they look handsome etc, that may get him the point.

I have gone threw this in other relationships, and usually I would make a joke about it or make fun at it. But now I am currently in a relationship that is not like that. My husband don't look at other girls, he don't comment on anyone else unless he thinks they are dressed to skimpy. He will say she looks gross she needs to go put some clothes on. He gets upset when other men make comments about how pretty someone is especially if that man is married. There are men out there that don't do this. But for the ones that do, Just laugh it off, tell him he has hurt your feelings maybe he will quit.

If it bothers you that much, you can tell him frankly what you feel. If he really loves you, he will try not to make comments anymore. I think you are a little bit insecure. Well I would be, too. It's just natural to feel annoyed.

Yeah, you shouldn't care where he gets his appettite from, as long as he eats at home! Keep it in your mind that he's just physically attracted to others, but physically and emotionally to you!

Something like this doesn't normally bother me, so my husband and I don't really have issues with it, but if it makes you uncomfortable, it is perfectly ok to mention something to him. Don't come off threatened or jealous, the next time he makes a comment, just say, "I agree that she is attractive, but it makes me a little uncomfortable when you point that out to me. I understand there are other women who are attractive, but I would appreciate it if you would keep it to yourself. I know that you love me and I am not worried about you leaving me or anything like that, I just don't appreciate comments about other women." Something like that, as long as it is communicated calmly, and if he is as good to you as you say he is, the problem should be rectified. Good luck!

I think you should tell him how you feel. If he really cares for you, then he would listen. Perhaps he will tell you why he makes those comments. I read from somewhere that boys/girls who do that with their bf/gf in tow are basically insecure themselves. They want to be reassured that you don't do the same thing, but of course on a different level, like actually fall for another person who is more attractive. Guys like your bf may not actually have feelings for other girls that he compliments, but just wants assurance. Usually, they would evoke a response, which is what you're feeling right now, maybe a bit of jealousy or something. Just talk to him, it will work out if both of you are totally honest with each other.

You need to approach this on two fronts. The first is that you are probably a bit insecure. Comments about other women bother you because you think of it as a comparison to you. So the first thing you should try to do is learn how to feel good about yourself. This is true whether you are in a relationship or not. Respecting yourself and learning your personal value are things that will help you in all matters of life. The second thing is that your boyfriend is insensitive. He needs to be told that his comments bother you. I may look at another woman and be struck by her attributes but I do not share those feelings with my wife simply because I know that it might be hurtful to her. Your boyfriend needs a little sensitivity training.

if you have a good relationship with your fella and you can talk to him about other things without a problem then why dont you just tell him that his comments about others make you feel sad/upset, annoyed or whatever. if you have a good relationship you should be able to talk to each other about things like this without arguements. maybe he just needs to reasure you by giving you a hug. something realy simple can go along way but also you need to realise your jelousy and tell yourself that he loves you. as long as it is looking and not touching i believe it dosnt matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home, i hope you can work it out, goodluck

My bf did this to me too and it did bother me. He is now my husband. It's just the way that he is. He doesn't mean anything by it. He loves you, but men are attracted to many different type of women. I started to join in with him. I point out hot girls to him now. It's turned into a game with us. I just don't take it to heart. He thinks I'm hot and he married me. So, as long as he's not doing anything, looking is fine. It's what a healthy man does. You do check out guys right? Try to make a comment or two and see what he says. Make a commment about a girl and see what his reaction is. Play around with it and see what happens. Other thing is, have you said anything to him about it? If you've let him do it this long, he thinks it's okay. Maybe if you don't him it bothers you, then maybe he will stop. It's worth a try right? Good luck!

well thats your bf's fault he shouldnt comment loudly on other girls, he should have kept it to himself. i see pretty girls with my gf beside me, i just admire them, she understands.

hi there! im nhoj well, girl don't be sad. it doesn't mean that you're boyfriends doesn't like you or he is cheating on you. I'm sure you feel that he loves you right? it is just an appreciation. generally, men are really like that. it's annoying, i understand but you don't need to be jealous. the important is you love each other.

cheer up, girl. if he admires beautiful women that means you are beautiful, too. he won't choose you for his girl if you're not since he admires beauty. don't worry about it. you'll get used to it.

it really doesnt matter. .as far as your boyfriend loves u and emotionally attached to you.. he making comment on others physical really shouldnt bother to you.. actually you should feel great that he is open to you and expressing his feelings about other girls.. good boyfriend you have got there :), because otherwise there are boys who just adores other good looking girls and not hiding it from a girlfriend which is really bad.

hey sweetie.. relax. I being a guy wanna tel u tht, we guys do comment abt other girls as we want to make u realise that we would want you to groom urself and look much better. it is not tht u cant look gud right. every girl's got a different kinda beauty. so wat we wud want u to do is, jus highlight ur best features n look attractive. its jus that he wants u to realise tht u could look much much better than how u presently look

Lol! I hate too when my girlfriend look other guys, man Im so jealous.. But I think this is quite normal, no? - nikotina4you

He's a guy. Get over it. If he loves you and all, it will be fine. However overall, I'll say that's its a stage and that it will eventually wane. On the other hand, you should talk to him about it and make known how you feel. Good luck!