Are you a Martyr kind of person when it comes to love?
By jtmblossom
@jtmblossom (470)
Philippines
February 8, 2007 4:22am CST
I guess i can say i am so martyr to my husband even how many times he hurt me. Im very much suffocated to what he is doing to me,but still i love him....But i just dont know how to trust him back.'coz once trust is betrayed it is so difficult to gain it back. Leaving him would not be the answer to the problem.,i will still stay with him as i have promised.
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@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
WHen one loves, he/she makes some sacrifices and i guess this makes a martyr out of every one of us who truly love.
I agree with you that once trust is lost, it is very difficult to gain it back, and sometimes even harder to trust again. I am not really sure about what you said that your husband has hurt you several times already. I mean, is it physical or emotional? It's good that you dont see leaving him as the first way out because you are married already. Some married people who experience problems in their marriage always seek divorce as the first way out and do not even try to work things out. If you really feel suffocated or hurt by what your husband is doing, you should tell him about it.Talk to him and find ways to solve the problem. Good luck to you..
@jtmblossom (470)
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
We're working it out to solve the problem.I never want to seek any divorce,separation or annulment. He hurt me emotionally. But i guess both of us needs an adjustment.No matter how long we've been on this relationship,still we need that adjustment.I know i am suffocated but i dont want to leave him because i love him so much and i pity on him.Thank you for some advice,it helps.
@marjonelle (798)
• Philippines
8 Feb 07
I will never be a martyr in regards with relationship. I have respect to myself. If you were betrayed once it's ok. Give him another chance, but if he do it again, no need to live with him. It only means he won't change anymore.
