LOVE / ARRANGED MARRIAGE / myLot

By komal_swetha

@komal_swetha (821)

India

October 12, 2006 2:11am CST

Which do you prefer?

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138 responses

xbrendax

@xbrendax (2662)

• United States

12 Oct 06

I do not believe in (arranged marriages)! I think it is the dumbest thing started on this earth! Of course it had to be a MAN who started it!!!!!!

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komal_swetha

@komal_swetha (821)

• India

12 Oct 06

Why do you think so? You can see most of arranged marriages are successful then love marriages.

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ilyasjan

@ilyasjan (803)

• Pakistan

28 Dec 06

oky if you pus any one to love and then you push to deep in difficult. that lvoe will be good. i will say that areange will be better. tht first see that what is the situation and what the personality.

rakleen

@rakleen (565)

• India

12 Oct 06

FIRST I WILL LOVE THE GIRL AND THEN MARRY HER IN AN ARRANGED WAY.

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komal_swetha

@komal_swetha (821)

• India

12 Oct 06

It will be better.

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ilyasjan

@ilyasjan (803)

• Pakistan

28 Dec 06

but to do as some time it made very dangerous

LadyLeasJ

@LadyLeasJ (204)

• United States

2 Nov 06

I think an arranged marriage would be better. I am from the US where this is not a tradition here and from what I see (and correct if I am wrong) arranged marriages seem to last. There are so many divorces here because people think they fall into love and then just as quickly fall out of it. As long as there is no abuse and people learn to treat eachother right, love will build from it.

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@gulshah (861)

• China

13 Oct 06

a blend of both is the best but i would like to hav an arrange marriage

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swapnil83

@swapnil83 (40)

• India

22 Dec 06

yes..me too.

simply_coool

@simply_coool (384)

• India

12 Oct 06

Arrange is better i suppose

komal_swetha

@komal_swetha (821)

• India

13 Oct 06

Even I think so

komal_swetha

@komal_swetha (821)

• India

13 Oct 06

tammytwo

@tammytwo (4298)

• United States

28 Oct 06

I prefer love, but it's gotta be true love. :)

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uzaircs

@uzaircs (2318)

• Sharjah, United Arab Emirates

5 Nov 06

ok i hope u will find that after some struggle

netizen

@netizen (534)

• India

12 Oct 06

Love marriage which has to be arranged by parents is the best one.

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komal_swetha

@komal_swetha (821)

• India

12 Oct 06

ok. Thanks for replying

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malinikarunakar

@malinikarunakar (106)

• India

22 Dec 06

i agree with u...hope tat comes true in my life..

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cikedo

@cikedo (3483)

• United States

8 Feb 07

Love should come first. How can a marriage ever be a happy one without love?

dj_faheem

@dj_faheem (738)

• Pakistan

22 Feb 07

i prefer marriage should me lovely arranged..................................this is peaceful and best............

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nickventere

@nickventere (1420)

• Zambia

11 Aug 07

Here is another cultural scenario. Well, the world I live in does not have anything like arranged marriage. You marry whom you love. How would it feel to marry someone you don't even love, let alone not even know?

mikokre

@mikokre (132)

• Nigeria

23 Jan 07

I prefer love to arranged marriage bcos love as i know is the greatest force on earth.And besides with out love it will be very very impossible to please God.

govindatoshniwal

@govindatoshniwal (31)

• India

22 Jan 07

i think love mariage wud b better.......

kunalbkumar

@kunalbkumar (65)

• India

22 Jan 07

mine is arranged. swetha what about u? u didnt mentioned.

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ralf_jay

@ralf_jay (213)

• Sweden

16 Mar 07

i prefer love marriage make my parents agree for that and then marry he. am not over confident but i am confident that as a human we can manage many things in life

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