my girl friend left me because im poor...

I'm sorry to hear that astaroth. I don't think that she loves you. If she really loves you then she would'nt leave you, instead will help you find a good living and support you. My friends and family did'nt like my boyfriend because they say that he can't be a good husband in the future because he doesn't have a good work. But we are still together and going 4 years now in our relationship and still getting stronger. While I support him, he is in return doing his best to make our relationship last. Hope you will find somebody who will support you and who truly loves you. Cheers!

Well I am happy for you and I am not joking or being a jerk. We don't need people like that in our lives. Look for someone that loves you for you and life will continue to get better and better.

I think she's is very stupid. If you love a person you don't care about his money! I think that she doesn't love you... I'm sorry... but you have lost a ugly person, I'm sure you'll be more lucky in the future ;-)

Sorry about what happened to you. What your girlfriend did to you, leaving you because you dont have money, is an acceptable reason. Money can never be a basis when it comes to true love. She left you because you dont have money? you dont deserve to have a girlfriend like her. it only means she doesnt love you. I dont want to be bias as well, so maybe she has other reasons behind that? What you need to do is prove to her that you can work hard and earn money. IF someone really loves you, its not because you have or dont have the money but because she loves you for who you really are. In a relationship, both should help each other in order to be happy.

Money is not the most important thing for our relationship. If she loves you deep from her heart, i believe she should not leave you. The most important things for the relationships are you love each other, can understand beetween you and her, money is not at all.

I think its pretty messed up if she left you just because you are poor. Maybe that wasn't the real reason? I would date a poor guy, but I wouldn't date a guy who didn't work. Not working is showing a lack of determination, drive or desire to succeed. I would date a guy who didn't make a lot of money, but not one who was okay with not being able to afford the things they need in life. Its one thing to be working towards a goal and just not be there yet and its another thing to not be working towards a goal.

I dont think so that she was right...But i have seen girls always running after the money... I dont know why this happens... Is money all the thing on this earth that they even leave their conscience behind themselves???

Thats pretty sad if she left you becuase you are poor. That means that she would only be with you if you were rich. We know what we call those kind of people here in America. You don't need money to be in a relationship and with that kind of thinking, you weren't in a relationship to begin with.

No, I don't thik it was right. But if that's a priority for her than I guess it is better to know that now than later, when you've invested even more of your heart. I have dated men who much more money than I do and men who make much less. To me, I don't care if a man is poor as long as he's either happy in his situation and living within his means or working to get to a situation that makes him happier. It doesn't bother me if a man doesn't have money to spend on me as long as he isn't using ME to pay his expenses.

If money was important why in the first place she took up the relationship? Means she did not assess her priorities properly whether she wants money or good relationship. It is good riddens for you for not wasting your presious time for an immatured girl.

It's just as easy to fall in love with a poor man as a rich man. That's for sure. I am in a very similar situation. My boyfriend is also poor. I also tried to leave him knowing that he would not be able to provide for me. There are things i want out of life and unfortunatly it involves money. Not to mention a child. If we were to have a child together, how would we afford that. These are all things that one must think about. And no, money isn't everything, but it's a lot. The question your girlfriend should have asked is "will his situation change". Do you have the desire, the drive or the capability to get money?

well me and my bf don't have alot of money either but if you truly love someone money shouldn't matter that much. I know that you need money to live and pay bills but for her to leave you for something like that without trying to figure out a solution to the problem well she must care more for material things then love.

Are you sure she left because you were poor.. or did she think that you lacked ambition to change it?