what would it take for you to have an affair?
By ESKARENA1
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
7 responses
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
9 Feb 07
I think if my husband had an affiar and I could tell he was going to leave me. If we didnt love each other anymore and couldn't work things out. if I met someone at the right time before I got a divorce. I might have an affiar. But I would already be heading for a divorce first.
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@Bizziebod (3497)
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10 Feb 07
Well I'm single so in theory this doesn't really apply to me, but if I wasn't then it would take him to have an affair for me to get my revenge other than that then nothing at all. If I fell out of love with him then I would leave end of story, there is no point in causing someone so much pain by having an affair!
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@shywolf (4514)
• United States
9 Feb 07
I hope that I would never do something like that. I would definitely have to be quite unhappy in my marriage first, and of course I am also speaking hypothetically here since I'm not yet married or even in a relationship. I really do think that women cheat more on the whole because they feel emotionally unsatisfied, and men cheat more because they feel sexually unsatisfied. I know this would be the case for me, if I felt emotionally unhappy, that I would have a harder time not looking for someone else. But I really hope that I would leave my husband before I would do anything with anyone else.
@Sweetpeas (738)
• Australia
10 Feb 07
Mmmm well I guess ill let you know if or when it happens lol ;).
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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10 Feb 07
lol ok good point, i am i stress speaking hypothetically
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@Sweetpeas (738)
• Australia
10 Feb 07
I know lol. I just couldnt imagine what in the world would make me stray, so Im keeping an open mind lol.
@docjudie (42)
• United States
10 Feb 07
I could only see it happening if my partner had already had an affair and I already knew I would be leaving.
Even then I think I would probably wait till I was actually gone so I could hold my head up..unlikely but knows I just might give into revenge.
@TAURUSGIRL (735)
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9 Feb 07
well theoretically speaking too if the right person came along and let me be me and showed me how to love then i would be more than happy to go for it tc xx
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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9 Feb 07
wow thank you for your honesty, i just hope you dont have to wait so long
@TAURUSGIRL (735)
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9 Feb 07
haha i dont intend to and i wont thankyou cos were not supposed to lol tc happy posting and thankyou