Would you rather be alone or single? to ALL woman
@polishprincess1 (21)
United States
February 10, 2007 1:05am CST
Me and my boyfriend got into this discusion the other night. And I was wondering, would you rather be single by yourself where you dont have to worry about a relationship. Or would you rather be happy in a relationship with a man who loves you, and treats you like the only woman in the world?
11 responses
@cristlegirl (817)
• United States
11 Feb 07
Personaly I would rather be with someone who loved me and who I love just as much in return. Someone who treated me well and was my best friend. Someone I could get angry at one minute, and wonder why I was the next.
But single life does have it's advantages at points in your life, one you can do and go where ever you want. Like I am going back to school when I graduate if I am single I can move anywhere without worrying about someone else. Everything you have is yours and yours only and if you want to watch the tv you can! lol
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
10 Feb 07
well, obviously the second choice. I'd rather be in a relationsip with the man who treats me well.
@healer (1779)
• India
11 Feb 07
HMm this a tough question lolzz i won't score good marks here as i am in a fix there wether to be single or get married. People say and we experience the joyness of being loved but after marriage it gets different so am afraid of that, sometimes its nice to be alone with no problems in our life about a guy but i can't say i ca live without them at the moment
@exquisite07 (42)
• Nigeria
11 Feb 07
Right from creation,God created the man and the woman differently to complement each others needs and complexities,that is why the woman is more emotional than the man and she has great influence.i don't see the reason why we should be single,despite the heart break ,it's good to be in love with a man that trets you like a queen
@Love_Lorn_66 (11)
• Singapore
24 Oct 08
dear polish :
i am only speaking for myself ......... no one chooses to be single..... not especially me ......
i didn't specifically go to heaven and say to God ..... don't gimme a woman ..... she's too much trouble .... ... :D :D
i do not like or desire to be single .... ... but that does not mean that i would want to be in a relationship where i am always the loser .... i think both man and woman must play their part to make the relationship happy and fufilling ........ one where no one loses ... both win.
@smints8985 (1594)
• United States
11 Feb 07
I would rather be happily in a relationship though I know I have to always keep in mind that I need to hold on to something and someone, because I know that it would bring greater joy to my life.. although being single would mean being carefree and doesn't have to worry about anything, I think I would forever feel incomplete..:(
@jenalyn (675)
• United States
10 Feb 07
If I was in a happy relationship, then I wouldn't want to be by myself. A happy relationship with someone who treats you good is a hard thing to find. There are so many people that can not give, they only want to receive. Most men I have been with are very self centered. I haven't found one that made me feel like I was special. I am 35 and I have only had 3 relationships that were longer than 2 years.
None of the men I find treat me like I am anything special. So if I ever found one that did, I would hang on to him. I don't think working on a relationship to make it good it so bad that I would rather be single. I think the relationships I choose would make me want to be single, and I would get a dog, too.
@sakura_ryuzaki (348)
• Philippines
10 Feb 07
well for me, i would like to be in relationship and be with the one i love... and be happy, but i were to single forever i would like to have a fruitful carrer and healthy life for being alone...
@pinstikfartherin (75)
• United States
10 Feb 07
I would definitely want to be in a happy relationship. I never minded being single and not having to worry about the things that come with a relationship, but nothing beats the good times. Sure, there are bad times when you wonder why in the world you bother with dating. However, when you find that one special someone, little else matters. Yes, it can make things even more frustrating when there are problems, but the good times are really good.
Point being, I wouldn't trade my man for anything. The happy times outweigh and outshine the bad times. I'd miss out on too much if I would have passed this one up.