What Would You Do If You Caught Your Boyfriend Cheating??

My ex did cheat on me, but didn't tell me until the girl was almost 9 months pregnant. When he told me I was 2 months pregnant with our 3rd child. I was so devasted. We tried to work things out, but he wouldn't stop seeing her. He of course would say he has to see her because of the baby, but I would say just go pick up the baby and not hang around. It drove me to the point where I said enough is enough. I was at that point when he wouldn't claim the new baby, and wouldn't tell his family about her. They found out because of me. That was a devasting point in my life, but I am doing good now.

Hey ! I`m a very jelous person you know .. and if you`d told me 4 months ago that i`ll be able to forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me .. i would probably laugh into your face . But yet .. it happened .. I found out about his willing to cheat on me in a crisis moment of our relationship .. i was so devastated back then that i decided to break up with him .. But after i told him this .. i had the streinght to call him and ask if he`s with someone else . And he told me .. "yes .. we`ve decided today to get together "(he and the other one) In that moment .. i felt like the world fell on me .. i cried the night off .. and in the morning .. i got dressed .. and took the bus to his city . I went to his school .. and guess what .. they were just getting out from the classroom .. together .. i don`t know how i managed to calm down .. but i was been able to ralk to that b*** and to my boyfriend too .. without yelling or stuff .. and i felt nothing in that moment .. i felt like.. i don`t even love him anymore .. and .. after all .. i left them there .. A couple of days after .. he calls me .. and wants to get back with me .. and you know why ? .. Because the other one was just provoking him .. she had a boyfriend too .. but as i was saying .. she`s a b*** It was right before Christmas .. so i decided that everyone deserves a second chance .. I can`t tell you that nothing changed .. maybe for him .. but inside of me .. there`s everyday a fight going on .. because i know he goes back to school .. back to her .. and i know nothing about it .. But still .. i do love him .. :(

of course I would really aplit with him.. I dont want to be cheated for I am not a cheater..Its better to end the agony than prolonging it..

There's no going back when someone has cheated on you as the trust has gone and once that has gone then you have nothing left! I would sever all ties with him and have nothing more to do with him, they couldn't have many feelings for you in the first place to do something like that!

I've actually had this happen to me , but I was on the other end. My Boyfriend didn't tell me he was Married w/ a child ' till after three months of Dating. Then....was kind enough to ask me if I wanted to be his Mistress! That " Other" woman isn't always to Blame. But once the information is given to her....she has to make a logical decision. Naturally for my own Broken -heart...I gently bowed out of this relation-ship. Never once did any Idea of harming him , or anyone for that Matter....ever occur to me. Perhaps I'm more interested in healing , than revenge.

i would just get out of the relationship. cut off all contact and move on with my life. no one is worth crying over

Cheating is a deal breaker for me. I've never cheated on any relationship and I expect the same respect in return. My husband and I had this discussion before we ever got married and I made sure to make my position crystal clear, as did he. I very much respect people who can forgive cheating and mend their broken relationships but I don't have that in me. Once my trust would be broken in that way, I would never fully trust again. If you don't have implicit faith in your partner, I don't believe you have an honest relationship... and that's the only kind I want. :)

i walked away.. and never answered his letters and phone calls

i have been cheated on before and it totally screwed up the relationship. I tried staying calm and ended up freaking out the next day and the rest of the year the relationship went on about it. its really hard to get over, if its even possible to get over it at all. it finally just got to be too much for me because id freak over anything mentioned about other girls and stuff. partly because he was rude about it but i just couldnt take it anymore and left him. my current bf hasnt done it and i hope he never will. im not giving second chances this time around.

hmmmm...that's a tough question. if i catch my bf cheating on me, ill probably beat the girl's a** then ill confront my bf, beat the hell out of him..i don't deserve to be cheated on..im a very loyal gf, and i don't deserve to be treated that way. im not gonna forgive my bf, which will become my "ex" .but i do hope that he won't do it to me.

god girl i cant say as its too bad...haha...i wld cut off his d..k na i wld,nt wldnt i...i,m single as i want to be had enough of men 4 now...not always god if men read this i,ll be single 4,ever...haha...loljdxx:)