what do you want on valentine day?

@bcc23488 (883)
Thailand
February 11, 2007 8:32pm CST
I have one best friend but my relation I and she still friend but I love her so much what shold I do on valentine day I make one discussion to ask my friends on mylot can you marry with your best friend? I think I must do something because many people say I must risk so I want to know it
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20 responses
• Philippines
12 Feb 07
Yes you should take the risk, if u love her then tell it to her, i have an experience like this and i was not able to tell the person i love that i love him until it was too late, he fell into another woman's arms
@bcc23488 (883)
• Thailand
13 Feb 07
I think it is high risk so I do not want to make her disappoint me because I ask my friend that what is my love feeling now? my friend tell me perharb she feel disappiont me. I tell her that how am I feel with her? and everything is bad so since the day I say I like her I don't say it again but I do everything for her until she ask me that she know my feeling with her
• United States
14 Feb 07
i dont want anything spectacular for valentines day all i wanted was the cinderella 3 movie and a new chain for my necklace. i do really care for the flowers or candies. because those dont last long. and id like something that i would be able to cherish and remeber for many years to come. and yes i think that it is good to marry your best frined. as long as your friend feels the same way. the risk is losing the friendship that was once there before if it doesnt work out, it depends on the relationshoip that you two have.
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
13 Feb 07
i already got my valentines gift, my husband let me buy a new cell phone and we agreed since i just got it it'll be my valentines gift!
@Piratesware (2888)
• Indonesia
12 Feb 07
well..giv her rose and chocolate..it's will hasi big meaning for her.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Go to dinner with the hubby and he buys me some candy and that a card. And thats my valentine day.
@BlaKy2 (1475)
• Romania
12 Feb 07
On Valentine day i want to be with my lover, to spend all the day next to her and enjoy one of each other. Also i want to see love all over i go and i want that in this day everybody to love everybody.
@edigital (2709)
• United States
12 Feb 07
I advise you that if you love your friends within your relatives, you marry her and come for honeymoon to our country, I will welcome you in my family and whole day you will keep with my family and at night in a 4-star hotel I will reserve a room for you. If you do not want honeymoon too far go to Las Vegas
@cherhost (1072)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Life is too short to not take the risk of telling this person how you feel. Get her a nice gift something simple... candy, card or soemthing like that. Then take her out for a dinner and just say... I know we are friends but I really love you... then tell her why and what it is that makes you feel that way. Its not that hard but I can see where it would make you nervous. Oh and I married my best friend. We use to do everything together in groups with our boyfriend)girlfriends. We are married now. He and I were going home from a night and we stopped off at a park to have a snowball fight and he kissed me. Then he told me that he has feelings for me. And that was it we were together since. Good luck
@cooky28 (739)
• Australia
12 Feb 07
go for it and have a good time.
@unisis (1673)
• Indonesia
12 Feb 07
in this valentine days i want to give my lover which one thing that she can not forget it,i shall give her a gold ring in this valentine days
• United Arab Emirates
12 Feb 07
i want some sweet words and kisss dats it.........
@kareng (61785)
• United States
12 Feb 07
If you never voice your opinion and tell her how you feel, how will she ever know? Do you want to go through life holding on to these feelings or telling her how you feel and maybe holding her in your arms? Go for it! And good luck :)
• China
12 Feb 07
I think that you should talk to her and let her known you idea.i will marry with my best friend.I think that it is my luck if I can. Good luck for you!
@sizzle3000 (3036)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Marriage is about being with someone that is your friend, confidant and soul mate. Love is taking risk. If you really love your best friend and want to have a serious relationship with him or her tell them. You should be able to tell your best friend everything and this is something you should tell. If you have good communication and are truely good friends you can talk about this. You will either have a girlfriend or boyfriend after the talk or you will still be friends.
@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
12 Feb 07
The way I understand what you are asking is this, "I am in love with my best friend. Should I marry her?" and if that is the question, I would say yes, if she will have you. What could be more perfect than to be married to your best friend?
@Bunny2 (2102)
• Australia
12 Feb 07
I can't think of a more perfect day to tell her how you feel. Valentines is a day for lovers. BUT first you must decide if you are willing to lose her friendship if she decides that she doesn't return your love. I know that it a BIG decision. As I told you in your other discussion, I took that risk and told my best friend that I loved him. We are going to celebrate our 26th wedding anniversary at the end of March. I It can happen, sweetie, and I hope and pray that it does for you. Sending you lots of positive thoughts.
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
12 Feb 07
If you love her indeed ask her to marry . it dont hurt to marry best friends for it does bloom into reall love good luck
@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
12 Feb 07
That is something you need to pray and talk to her about. Are you two just friends? If so first you need to let her know that you would like to be more then just friends and see how she reacts. Good luck
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
12 Feb 07
Yes of course you can marry with your best friend a lot of people start out with friendships, that develop into best friends, and then they get married what is wrong with that. Go ahead and ask her and let me know how you go I wish you all the luck in the world.
@patrice7 (1191)
• United States
12 Feb 07
hello bcc!. i think that you should prioritize what your heart wants.. choose to be happy and choose the things that will make you truly happy for this happiness will set you free!. anyway as for your question i think i want my hubby to take me out on a date, preferably in a beach and we will have a lamp lit dinner. i would also want to be with my family on valentines day and celebrate with them..