Should you get mad when your husband make a comment about a celebraty?

LOL! Did you two just watch Shakira perform at the Grammys?? My boyfriend was doing the drewling thing over her dancing, and of course he can't keep quiet about it. He has to say over and over again how "hot" she is. I don't pay him any attention. Men are men, and we just have to accept it. Of course your body changes as you get older and after you have kids. Don't worry about it and don't get upset about it. For men this is just a visual thing; I don't feel that it means a thing at all. He'll forget all about it when you get into bed with him tonight.

as long as he still treats you with respect and doesnt cut you down or ignore you I wouldnt get too mad, now if he disprespects you or goes out anc heats on you, I wouldnt tolerate it for a minute. But I would let him know how it makes you feel,hun- ask him how he would feel you acted that way when hot guys come on TV.. Good luck my friend!*Hugs*

No. That's just what guys do. They're sick, but it's human nature.

I will not get mad of him just because of that, I think for man it is natural, every man in this world like to see everything that looks beauty. I think that is their man's attitude & we can not change it.

Don't let it bother you, you have to remember he chose you you are reality the celebs are just a fantasy I have never seen a ring on a mans had that made him blind...the can look as long as thay don't touch. try telling him you don't like to hear about how hot some lady is tell him it hurts your feelings. I gaurantee he wouldn't like it if you were saying it...

I didn't use to want to hear my hubby thought another female was pretty. But the longer we've been together the less it bothers me. We all look, and I definitely find other men attractive. I don't voice it to my hubby, but I don't think he'd be too bothered.

Thats what men do, it isn't that he doesn't love you or doesn't find you attractive men are just very visual. There are beautiful women out there and your man doesn't become blind when being with you. As long as he is faithful and respects certain boundries I don't think a little look here and there hurts.

to be honest,i am a man ,i know what men think,they like beautiful girls,no matters how much he love you,this is can not be avoid,if you want to be angry with ,there is actully no ways,it only gains your troubles,

I don't get mad...heck...go for it. He'll never get anyone of those women that he's looking at. I've actually pointed them out to him every once in a wile. I'm very secure in my relationship and I know he loves me and will never do anything to hurt me.

sEE I CAN SEE WHAT ANNOYS YOU ABOUT HIM DOING THAT BUT YOU KNOW WHAT, IT WOUOLDN'T BOTHER ME!!! The thing is my fiance does the same thing, he goes on and on about Angelina Jolie and how hot she is and I am nohing like her, firstly I'm black and not her!!!! So i allow him the pleasures of fantasies but he will never have her and I can turn around and drool over some hot young man on tv!!!! He doesnn;t mind because at the end of the day he has chosen me and that is who he is committed to...eye candy never killed anyone!!!!

i don't get mad. i also compliment people, even man if i see them beautiful or handsome. but we don't drool. =p we browse magazines or catalogues but i don't think he's into that stuff anymore. when he was a bit younger maybe.

i would get upset. i don't look anything like i did when we met. after the children things change, but our love remains the same. i don't get upset if he comments on a good looking woman. i would even agree with him sometimes. i can find beauty in other woman because i know i too am beautiful. once you know that you are beatiful nothing he says can ever may you mad

I dont think it should matter, its not like they are ever going to meet and do anything. Im sure there are celebrities that you think are hot. Women just have a little bit more decensy than to say it outloud. I wouldnt worry about

What's the point of getting upset about it.We all admire other people and if he didn't find you attractive he wouldn't be with you.I know I admire male celebrities/sports stars but it doesn't mean I want to leave my husband for them/

I dont realy see anything wrong with it as long as it doesnt bother the other person but Im a man so you probably dont agree. Just do it back to him when guys come on and see what kind of reaction you get and if he dont like it then you can go see now you know how I feel.

I actually giggled after I read this. My boyfriend and I argue over Jessica Alba. I make jokes about how he's got a second life with her. It doesn't bother me really. Men ARE men and nothing's gonna change how they react towards a celeb. I just do what he does to me. I drool over certain male celebs. I guess it does bug me once in a while because I don't look like those girls on TV or in the magazines.. I've put on a lot and it does lower my self-esteem a tiny bit when he talks about the girls he sees on tv.. But I don't let it get to me. He is who he is.

Lighten up. I rather have him drool at a woman in front of me than hide it! This is his way of playing it "safe" as he already has what he wants in you. My husband makes comments on the street and from TV shows and films, but he asks my opinions, too. Perhaps you should join in like I did and say - wow she's pretty, etc. Agree with him and he will either stopi it or join you in the admiration like my husband does.

What can I say after all these hundreds of responses. If he can afford it you can look like that too. Swiss spas, health clinics, personal hairdresser, lifestyle coach and not to mention jewellry and designer clothes. $50,000 spent per year on beauty and grooming can make the ordinary look tolerable, and the extraordinary look exquisite. But will that stop the looking or drooling? Something tells me it wont. Feel free to look and drool.

It's probably just a part of life. With a celebrity, you can at least be pretty sure that it will never be anything except "inside his head." Here at this house, it's usually my partner who's the vocal one-- she'll be watching TV and some hunk comes on, and she inevitably comments: "Now HE could have me!" It's just playing around.

I think it is normal to get irritated, and I do. You can do the same thing though and that will help him decide to not do that so much, maybe. Or it will make him jealous. Especially since he has most likely changed since you first met too. And if he wants to make comments well my grandma always said "whats fair for the gander is fair for the goose" so start making comments. Either that or ignore him, or work on getting your body back into shape as best as you possible can. You can only do so much though, because time changes everything.Abd we are only young once and everyone's body changes some people just learn to hide it better,