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akumei1269 @akumei1269 (1749) • India 22 Aug 07

Before going to the main discussion i would like to brief myself in this respect . I am 39 years of age and father of a child . I have never had a relationship even during my teenage years . In fact i could not muster enough...

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charitymvula i think he means telling them about your relationship or keeping it a secret! Introducing them to each other etc!!! i don't think he means to report your status to them all militantly!

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akumei1269 @akumei1269 (1749) • India 22 Aug 07

Before going to the main discussion i would like to brief myself in this respect . I am 39 years of age and father of a child . I have never had a relationship even during my teenage years . In fact i could not muster enough...

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charitymvula Well i always kept bpoyfriends seperate form parents, we are an african family and there are things that you just dont do regarding bringing boys or men home to meet the parents. I have only ever taken 2 guys to meet my parents and they have bumped into...

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charitymvula @charitymvula (489) 24 Nov 06

I know The atkins diet has a large part to play in this but surely your body needs them to function.

carbs

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charitymvula they are essential in your diet!

20 Aug 07

charitymvula @charitymvula (489) 12 Feb 07

I was thinking about how it has been going on and on about what companies can do to stop the rate at which the earth is heating up....but what are you personally doing to help out? I'm sure of everyone did something towards the...

carbon emissions

global warming

polution

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charitymvula so is there not one person who can say what they are doing about it and how they will help! serious people only please

20 Aug 07

Ellie @ellie26 (4139) • Malaysia 23 Apr 07

when you look at a person, do you see their skin color? Do you find yourself expressing signs of racisms? Just little things, like being surprised to see an affluent African-American or Hispanic person; or feeling a litle more...

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charitymvula I experience this everyday...people are always surprised at how well spoken I am, just because i am black! It really irritates me and i get tired of trying to explain why i sound the way I do! But why should I have to anyway? It went so far as to gain extra...

20 Aug 07

moligon23 @moligon23 (1) • United States 18 Jul 07

I would like to know why are there so many people in the world that are still racists. Please tell me why you think theres still racists people?

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charitymvula I think it's a shame that in this day in age there are people like you who feel the way you do! I am black and married a white man and wouldn't have had it any other way really. I don't see colour when I look at him and on the point about people naturally...

20 Aug 07

moligon23 @moligon23 (1) • United States 18 Jul 07

I would like to know why are there so many people in the world that are still racists. Please tell me why you think theres still racists people?

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charitymvula I can't really speak for the racists but I think it's a lack of knowledge and also ignorance that makes people jugde others by their skin colour! I am a black woman and recently married a white man and people do stare at us, especially older couples but i...

20 Aug 07

charitymvula @charitymvula (489) 20 Aug 07

I just wanted to find out how many people felt like I did, I thought that marriage wouldn't change me or our relationship but since we got married I feeli like things have changed...for the better...I have never frlt such a level...

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charitymvula i think trials and tribulations are a good thing in a relationship...we have had a tough six months, maily due to organising our wedding and both of us being suddenly out of work at the same time...it has been difficult but now we are married i feelt hat it...

20 Aug 07

charitymvula @charitymvula (489) 20 Aug 07

I just wanted to find out how many people felt like I did, I thought that marriage wouldn't change me or our relationship but since we got married I feeli like things have changed...for the better...I have never frlt such a level...

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charitymvula well it's not bad to feel the same...the main change I feel is that we are more open I guess it's because we know we have made a commitment to be together till death! Thanks for responding! And congratulations to you on your marriage!!!

20 Aug 07

guext65 @guext65 (129) • United States 20 Aug 07

When you walk on the street, do you think people are friendly? or not? What do you think?

people

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charitymvula When I walk around in town or sit at a window while having a drink in a restaurant i try and figure out the personal stories of people's lives! I always try and figur eout why they picked the outfit they are wearing, where they are going, what they are worried...

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charitymvula @charitymvula (489) 20 Aug 07

I just wanted to find out how many people felt like I did, I thought that marriage wouldn't change me or our relationship but since we got married I feeli like things have changed...for the better...I have never frlt such a level...

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charitymvula @charitymvula (489) 20 Aug 07

I love that Rianna was brave enough to do something different and I think she sounds great! i also love that she isn't afraid to be int he video a little heavier than normal! You go girl!

heavy

rianna

shut up and drive

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charitymvula @charitymvula (489) 20 Aug 07

My new husband and I want to go away for the long weekend to celebrate our marriage and were thinking of Brighton...we want to know if anyone has a place they could recommend to us as soon as possible. Thanks a lot!

brighton

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