charitymvula

@charitymvula (489)

Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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What was your parents' reaction when you first reported your relationship ?

akumei1269 @akumei1269 (1749) • India 22 Aug 07

Before going to the main discussion i would like to brief myself in this respect . I am 39 years of age and father of a child . I have never had a relationship even during my teenage years . In fact i could not muster enough...

parents

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charitymvula Well i always kept bpoyfriends seperate form parents, we are an african family and there are things that you just dont do regarding bringing boys or men home to meet the parents. I have only ever taken 2 guys to meet my parents and they have bumped into...

23 Aug 07

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Is there still racism amongs ourselves?

Ellie @ellie26 (4139) • Malaysia 23 Apr 07

when you look at a person, do you see their skin color? Do you find yourself expressing signs of racisms? Just little things, like being surprised to see an affluent African-American or Hispanic person; or feeling a litle more...

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charitymvula I experience this everyday...people are always surprised at how well spoken I am, just because i am black! It really irritates me and i get tired of trying to explain why i sound the way I do! But why should I have to anyway? It went so far as to gain extra...

20 Aug 07

Why are people still racists?

moligon23 @moligon23 (1) • United States 18 Jul 07

I would like to know why are there so many people in the world that are still racists. Please tell me why you think theres still racists people?

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charitymvula I can't really speak for the racists but I think it's a lack of knowledge and also ignorance that makes people jugde others by their skin colour! I am a black woman and recently married a white man and people do stare at us, especially older couples but i...

20 Aug 07

What do you think about people?

guext65 @guext65 (129) • United States 20 Aug 07

When you walk on the street, do you think people are friendly? or not? What do you think?

people

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charitymvula When I walk around in town or sit at a window while having a drink in a restaurant i try and figure out the personal stories of people's lives! I always try and figur eout why they picked the outfit they are wearing, where they are going, what they are worried...

20 Aug 07

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How often do you read paper or watch news on tv?

elpatz @elpatz (37) • Brazil 24 May 07

We are living in a world that changes everyday, do you stay in with the news, or you just let go, and sometimes you have no idea of what's going on nowadays?

news paper newspaper information comunication

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charitymvula i tend to watch the news everyday atleast three times a day form different channels justt o make sure i get the whole picture and also catch up on more news through the internet!!! i rarely read news papers because they are usually a day late in news!!! i...

24 May 07

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Robert Mugabe

Patcon @Patcon (80) • Ireland 30 Mar 07

Just wondering if anyone had any thoughts on Robert Mugabe and whats happening in Zimbabwe, how did he become leader?

regime

robert mugabe

zimbabwe

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charitymvula all you have to do is google the history of th country and you will know! He was a great leader, infact so great that Zim was the most economically stable country in Africa, so much so that in the late 80s, well into his presidency The Zim dollar was twice as...

24 May 07

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how do you eat a oreo cookie?

snoopy04 @snoopy04 (718) • United States 23 May 07

I thought this would be a fun question to ask.... How do you eat a Oreo cookie? My husband bought a new kind strawberry milkshake which was really good and we were eating them at the kitchen table when I noticed everyone ate them...

eating

oreos

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charitymvula that's a really funny obsevartion. i tend to bit intp the entire thing, like a third through...then i open it up and eat the sit without cream first then the other bit...then finally wash it down with milk!!! Weird how i always do it that way!!!!

24 May 07

Carrie's Hair on the show

kleesprague @kleesprague (7) • United States 22 Jan 07

Who thinks that Carrie's hair looked better straight or better curly? I think that when she wore it curly, some days it was just frizzy!

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charitymvula I have to disagree with the straight hair thing, it wasn't her!!! It was too normal and consevative when it was straight!!! i thought the curly hair was better. My favourite hair on her was the short wavy hair she had for a while, that was gorgeous and really...

24 May 07