Does she love me, or my money.

She's into the money I think, the fact that she's very young plus the fact that she's the one to propose to you? Oh I definitely think so.. It is not to pass judgement, but then looking at the obvious, I think it is as clear what she really is after..

Heheheh .. I think you will be having to ask your 18 year old pole dancing girl friend how she feels about having a jack russel in bed with you .. and ask her to teach your wife how to pole dance .. She does of course know about your 'other' life I assume .. and yes, of course she will be after your money .. that is if you have any left after your wife and jack russel take you to the cleaners for cheating on them hehehe !!!

Without knowing this woman personally I think that it would be hard for anyone to truly know what her intentions are. 18 years is a long time for her to stick around for the money... She's a pole dancer though, which might make one wonder if she's looking for a way to better herself and her situation. How old is she? I would find it hard to believe that a woman in her sixty's or seventy's is a pole dancer! Is she quite a bit younger then you are?

If you even have to ask, then I am sure you know the answer. Just ask yourself, if you didn't have the money would she still be as friendly to you. Think about Ann Nicol Smith before you make your mind up. I would possibly hire a private detective to investigate her as well, there is a reasonable chance that an 18 year old Pole Dancer already has a boyfriend hidden away somewhere. If it was up to me, and I did acept her proposal, then I would make a will, not leaving her everything, but an increasing amount for every year that you stay married, and a decrease in the amount yearly if you have to move to a nursing home in the future.

Are you truly serious. Shes a stripper and your well off. Simple solution to your problem as for a prenup stipulate that when you pass the money all goes somewhere else. Not a penny to her. Also have you thought about what kind of life an 18 yr wants. She is still a child inside playing in a grown up world. Why isn't she with someboyd her age. Is she trying to make up for something. What kinda of life has she had that she is a stripper. These are all questions that you need to know before commiting to anything.

for me,i think she only after your money.Anyway it depends on how long you've known her.Maybe you should know better first before you accept her propossal,in that way you can tell if she really love you.

It would really be hard to say if its true love or your money that she loves. One thing you could do If you want to marry her is get her to sign a pre numptual agreement. That way if you do marry her in the event you get divorced she doesn't get any of your money and do not under any reason have a joint bank account with her that gives her access to the money and she can spend as much as she wants. Instead give her an allowence that way she can only spend what you allow her too.

a pole dance??? that itself can question her character? and how long have you known this person anyway?? take everything into consideration and remeber you're a smart man and you have wisdom on you. one way to check, don't buy her anything and if you do accept, get a Pre Nuptual (sorry, but i think thats spelled wrong) and don't leave everything to her, most of it to charity in your will. those are just some percautions to take. just don't accept and live out your life. you do not have to be married to be happy.

that is a hard one. i think you should say to her, i will marry you but my will is going to say if anything happens to me, you will get nothing. something like that and see what she says... i don't know if a 18 year old stripper is in love with a older gentlemen as yourself. just make sure you money is not going to be taken advantage of. make her sign a pre-nup

A young cow always wants to eat in a greener pasteur..and with the kind of work she has..u can see how she is dying to have money...Maybe i can say 85% for money and 15% for love...But its up too you..just be wise...

i dont think she loves you.i think she like you and loves your money .cos it hard to get a girl that will love a man of your age.even if she likes you its gonna be like a fatherly thing.she can play with you like how she would play with a guy her age and cant also share the true love she will share with him with you.so i dont think she wants you.but am sure she likes you and loves your money

It must be very tempting to enjoy all that money, but if you're not careful you can say goodbye to all your lottery winnings. This is indeed very suspicious. If I were you I wouldn't worry about marriage. I would just visit her at the club, watch her perform, maybe take her out on a date, have some fun. That's it, no marriage! At her age of 18 she doesn't really need to rush into marriage, unless if she's up to something. So meantime, just have fun with her and see what happens.