do guys love as deeply as girls do???

umm...i dont think they are capable of that much!! my bf never remembers any occations.....i m the one who remembers all the bdays and anniversaries.....even his families!!!!!!!!

hmm....mine does!! i love him.....for all he does for me.... he callz me every night ....msges me every morning!!.... shares kisses between classes.....and buyz me lunch......and ofcourse....givz me free rides...loll!! wat more does a girl want huh??????

Men, in general, don't find calendar dates very important. It's not that it doens't matter, it's that they don't remember. My husband actually set a reminder on his computer so he wouldn't forget my birthday, because it IS important, it just is something he would normally forget. Men can and do love as deeply as women. However, it takes them longer to find the value in relationships. when they are young and IMMATURE, men can be focused on one thing - and its NOT long term relationships. Some men NEVER grow out of this phase. But many men DO, and can, and have matured to where they can love deeply.

I do think guys love as deeply as girls but they don't like to show it. Your right about a lot of them not remembering birthdays and special occasions, they are wrong when they do this. I beleive many care and some are just knuckle heads.

Off coarse not!!as a matter of fact my hubby never forget any of our special occasions even our first month as Bf. and Gf.He makes alot of effort i know coz sometimes i am the one who forgets..He cares..Do you know he works abroad....He talked to me on phone evryday hours and hours..Can't complain..

Me one of them.....guess? For you to know boys aren't all the same, some of them like me cares deeply for girls and others doesn't matter with them. The problems are :- 1-sometimes we don't know what exactly the value of the event, is it important for girls or normal thing. 2-sometimes boys needs to be reminded cause there are alot of things they have in their minds. 3-Some times they prefer to ..... Hey, is it supposed from me to tell you all secrets about boys! Bye :)

i think girls we are more emotional..but i also see guys doing their bit..im think it is pot luck..some men are not terribly romantic..but they do odd little things..that try to please us..it depends really..but i do see your point ..

yes ofcourse madam we do make true love. I know my friend who still thinks about his GF whom he was loving since 1999. She also loved him. However both didnt tell and finally she was asked marry some other guy and she accepted and settled as their parents were forcing her to do so last year 2006. Still he is in love with a girl whom he was on 1999 to 2006. I am trying to change his mind and making him concentrate on achievements other than GF. However no one can held responsible if girls always find bad guys in their life as narrated in "11 minutes" written by paulo Coelho.

I think guys do love as deeply but they just show it in a different way. Just because they don't realise the importance that you put on things like birthdays etc doesn't mean they don't care. Maybe they just need a reminder that these things are important to you.

I could say the same about a lot of men. But my husband is way different. He is the most caring and considerate person I have ever met. He is willing to do whatever it takes to make our marriage work. He remembers dates and special holidays better than I do. LOL. He does everything he can to make me feel like the most special person in the entire world. And to him, I am.