who can help me?
By zhisheng2005
@zhisheng2005 (301)
China
February 16, 2007 1:58pm CST
I feel that I have fallen into love with agirl,of course I don't tell her I have that feeling. Beacause she has just part with her former boyfriend,I don't know how she feel and I don't dare to break the silence to speak out my true feeling Now I am so confused and I don't know what to do , who an tell me whether I should tell her I like her
6 responses
@firefly18 (12)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
You'll have two options:
Take the risk and tell her or Stay as her friend, and enjoy her company
For me, the latter is better.. You see, you can relay your message of love not just through words.. do it in action.
Being with her first as her friend, you will have the chance of knowing her better, being there for her, enjoying her company, having the chance to hold her and win her heart in the process.
This way, you can start a relationship from friendship.
@andiruleu (310)
• United States
26 Feb 07
there are many options... but we are trying to narrow it down to only one.. but i would not tell her it is too soon. and too much for her to handle at the same time.. just take her out and be with her and talk to her.. that should be a better way
@andiruleu (310)
• United States
16 Feb 07
do not tell her that you love her.. i think that will scare her off especially if you dont know how she feels about you.. but if this girl you know that you can get close with.. take her out and watch a movie or have a nice dinner with her.. maybe this girl is not the one for you? you need to be with her as much as possible in taking her out to event and such to see how you really feel.. and if you think you guys connected then try to make a move or tell her how you feel saying that you LIKE her.. DO NOT say you LOVE her.
@andiruleu (310)
• United States
26 Feb 07
well now.. its been awhile since you posted this topic.. and i was wondering how things are going with you and that girl? anything new or is it working out? i hope our responses helped you out in this situation.. if not explain what is going on maybe we can help you some more.
@ddlaurie (132)
• Canada
17 Feb 07
If you feel such love for her it may help her in her break up to hear someone likes her or respects her. she is probable feeling a little lost and all alone. Hearing she has a person who loce or likes her will help her in the end. But if you like love her because she is in a break up then leave her alone.
