bluegem

@bluegem (174)

Dominican Republic • Age 61

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Help!!!!

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 1 May 11

I'm trying to get around on myLot but it seems so complicated. Can someone help me please???

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Contact admin

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 1 May 11

Is there a way to contact the myLot administration? I feel lost on this thing.

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Can a mylot account be deleted?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 1 May 11

I'm trying to delete my account. Is it even possible????

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Editing posts

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 1 May 11

Can a discussion be edited after it is posted? Somebody, please help!

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how many times have you fallen for the wrong person?

iceblade007 @iceblade007 (232) • Philippines 19 Dec 07

I know and i believe we love for no definite reason or purpose coz if we do... we can't consider it love.. because love is boundless... we can't say that were inlove if we love a person by means of his wealth, kindness, attitude,...

fallen in love

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bluegem My friends tell me that I wear my heart on my sleeves. So when I fall in love I usually do so with every essence of my being. Too bad it is often with the wrong person. I hope I'll finally fall for one of those guys who mean me well.

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How Old are you, Really?

serena_wai @serena_wai (970) • Malaysia 21 Jun 07

Do you look your age? People have been realizing the difference between calender age and biological age. People who live with a healthy life, happily living with their family, have regularly attending community activities...

age

life

look younger

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bluegem I look years younger. People often think that I'm still in high school even though I'm 24 years old. It's cool sometimes but at other times it annoys me.

24 Jun 07

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how much age gap is there between you and your partner?

xquisite @xquisite (156) • United States 24 Jun 07

me and my bf are 3 years apart, him being older. it's really nice cuz he knows what he's doing, and i still feel lil immature at times. how about you? are you the same age as your partner, or are you older/younger? how do you like...

age

generation gap

relationships

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bluegem My boyfriend is 4 years older than I am. It's fine with me because I think he is mature and has lots of experience and I like that. And since he is also in my age group, we are each other's best friend.

24 Jun 07

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Do you think long distance relationships work?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 21 Jun 07

Would you ever consider having a relationship with someone you met online? I've heard of these connections resulting in marriages but it sounded far-fetch to me. However, I recently met this very sweet guy online. I've totally...

love

relationship

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bluegem Congratulations! You give me hope. I talk to him every single day. We talk on the internet, on the phone, I see him on his webcam and I even get to talk to his family members. By the way, he is originally from Jamaica too so I feel a bit safe, knowing all this...

24 Jun 07

Do you think long distance relationships work?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 21 Jun 07

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bluegem Thanks for the encouragement my dear. By the way, where in Portmore are you?

24 Jun 07

What is your greatest fear?

Chryssi @Chryssi (828) • United States 14 Jun 07

Everybody has fears in life, some are worse than others. My greatest fear is so strong that it makes me start shaking, tears automatically start falling, and I get physically sick. It is always there in the back of my mind, I...

fear

trauma

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bluegem My greatest fear is that I'll die in a motor vehicle accident. I have witnessed at least two and they were horrible. I really do not want to die in such a way.

24 Jun 07

Ladies, how do you cope with PMS?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 22 Jun 07

Recently I've been noticing that about a week before my menses, I get terrible mood swings and a lethargic feeling. I am bothered by it as I find that I'm more easily irritated. This is a turn off for some people and makes the...

help

people

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How do you give Condolence to those who have lost their dear one.s

dbhattji @dbhattji (2506) • India 21 Jun 07

it is probably the most difficult task, I often find myself at a loss for words and just sit beside them holding their hands. Even words of condolence seem too superficial some times looking at the gravity of the situation. Unless...

condolence

greiving relative

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bluegem This can be tricky sometimes because people are different and respond to different things. What may work for one person may not necessarily work for another. Sometimes it is even best to stay quiet. When my boss lost his mother, I couldnt find the words to...

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what is your lifes greatst dream

ranikrishnan @ranikrishnan (1683) • India 21 Jun 07

everyone have a dream, big or small. but i feel sharing it will keep us inspired and thinking of it more often. share this dream of urs. as for me i want to become a world famous writer known to bringing about great changes in the...

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bluegem My greatest dream is to become a successful entreprenuer and author. As an entreprenuer I'll be able to make a difference in the lives of some people who are less fortunate and as an author I'll be able to influence the lives of people through inspirational...

21 Jun 07

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What does life mean to you?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 21 Jun 07

Many people have their own ways of describing life. I've heard metaphors like: 'life is a gamble', 'life is a journey' and 'life is a test'. What is your definition of life?

life

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Will you hit cockroach with your foot?

sukandar_ag @sukandar_ag (880) • Indonesia 21 Jun 07

When I was taking a bath this morning, a cockroach gave me creeps on my leg. I gave it a jolt as my reflex. It fell down on the floor before my foot finished the creature by a deadly hit. I'm not a man with cockroach-phobia. I...

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bluegem cockroaches are creepy. I hate them. I'd have to be wearing a shoe to hit it. There's no way I'd use my bare foot, absolutely not!

21 Jun 07

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Sunrise - Sunset

IL2Knit @IL2Knit (1141) • United States 21 Jun 07

The two most lovely times of the day are Sunrise and Sunset. Sunrise is the birth of a new day. Sunset is the death of a day. Yet they are both so pretty. It is like our life with the Lord. For us to be born into this world is a...

beauty in death

beauty in life

sunrise sunset

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bluegem Great observation. I've never really thought of it like that before. Now you've given me something to contemplate. Thanks for a great post!

21 Jun 07

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Can a person have too many friends?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 21 Jun 07

I am a relatively popular person as people are often attracted to my outgoing personality. I've always liked being this way until now. It's like I'm too much in demand and so keeping the connection with all my friends has become...

friend

relationship

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who is your favourite femae singer of all time?

missportmore83 @missportmore83 (121) • Jamaica 16 Jun 07

Oh my this is hard but for me its a tie between, Celine Dion and Mariah Carey, what about you?

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bluegem Girl you are right on target. My favourite singer is Mariah Carey. I think she has a beautiful voice. Celine is great too!

21 Jun 07

Have you ever been to Jamaica in the Caribbean?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 26 Feb 07

Hey guys i'm from Jamaica. I know u may have heard lots of bad things about us but I can tell u one thing... we have some of the warmest ppl that ever lived. We care for each other. Neighbours look aout for one another and we have...

people

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bluegem Where in Jamaica are you from?

21 Jun 07

Do you think long distance relationships work?

bluegem @bluegem (174) • Dominican Republic 21 Jun 07

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