bluegem

@bluegem (174)

Dominican Republic • Age 61

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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how many times have you fallen for the wrong person?

iceblade007 @iceblade007 (232) • Philippines 19 Dec 07

I know and i believe we love for no definite reason or purpose coz if we do... we can't consider it love.. because love is boundless... we can't say that were inlove if we love a person by means of his wealth, kindness, attitude,...

fallen in love

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bluegem My friends tell me that I wear my heart on my sleeves. So when I fall in love I usually do so with every essence of my being. Too bad it is often with the wrong person. I hope I'll finally fall for one of those guys who mean me well.

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How Old are you, Really?

serena_wai @serena_wai (970) • Malaysia 21 Jun 07

Do you look your age? People have been realizing the difference between calender age and biological age. People who live with a healthy life, happily living with their family, have regularly attending community activities...

age

life

look younger

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bluegem I look years younger. People often think that I'm still in high school even though I'm 24 years old. It's cool sometimes but at other times it annoys me.

24 Jun 07

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how much age gap is there between you and your partner?

xquisite @xquisite (156) • United States 24 Jun 07

me and my bf are 3 years apart, him being older. it's really nice cuz he knows what he's doing, and i still feel lil immature at times. how about you? are you the same age as your partner, or are you older/younger? how do you like...

age

generation gap

relationships

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bluegem My boyfriend is 4 years older than I am. It's fine with me because I think he is mature and has lots of experience and I like that. And since he is also in my age group, we are each other's best friend.

24 Jun 07

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What is your greatest fear?

Chryssi @Chryssi (828) • United States 14 Jun 07

Everybody has fears in life, some are worse than others. My greatest fear is so strong that it makes me start shaking, tears automatically start falling, and I get physically sick. It is always there in the back of my mind, I...

fear

trauma

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bluegem My greatest fear is that I'll die in a motor vehicle accident. I have witnessed at least two and they were horrible. I really do not want to die in such a way.

24 Jun 07

How do you give Condolence to those who have lost their dear one.s

dbhattji @dbhattji (2506) • India 21 Jun 07

it is probably the most difficult task, I often find myself at a loss for words and just sit beside them holding their hands. Even words of condolence seem too superficial some times looking at the gravity of the situation. Unless...

condolence

greiving relative

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bluegem This can be tricky sometimes because people are different and respond to different things. What may work for one person may not necessarily work for another. Sometimes it is even best to stay quiet. When my boss lost his mother, I couldnt find the words to...

21 Jun 07

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what is your lifes greatst dream

ranikrishnan @ranikrishnan (1683) • India 21 Jun 07

everyone have a dream, big or small. but i feel sharing it will keep us inspired and thinking of it more often. share this dream of urs. as for me i want to become a world famous writer known to bringing about great changes in the...

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bluegem My greatest dream is to become a successful entreprenuer and author. As an entreprenuer I'll be able to make a difference in the lives of some people who are less fortunate and as an author I'll be able to influence the lives of people through inspirational...

21 Jun 07

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Will you hit cockroach with your foot?

sukandar_ag @sukandar_ag (880) • Indonesia 21 Jun 07

When I was taking a bath this morning, a cockroach gave me creeps on my leg. I gave it a jolt as my reflex. It fell down on the floor before my foot finished the creature by a deadly hit. I'm not a man with cockroach-phobia. I...

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bluegem cockroaches are creepy. I hate them. I'd have to be wearing a shoe to hit it. There's no way I'd use my bare foot, absolutely not!

21 Jun 07

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Sunrise - Sunset

IL2Knit @IL2Knit (1141) • United States 21 Jun 07

The two most lovely times of the day are Sunrise and Sunset. Sunrise is the birth of a new day. Sunset is the death of a day. Yet they are both so pretty. It is like our life with the Lord. For us to be born into this world is a...

beauty in death

beauty in life

sunrise sunset

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bluegem Great observation. I've never really thought of it like that before. Now you've given me something to contemplate. Thanks for a great post!

21 Jun 07

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who is your favourite femae singer of all time?

missportmore83 @missportmore83 (121) • Jamaica 16 Jun 07

Oh my this is hard but for me its a tie between, Celine Dion and Mariah Carey, what about you?

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bluegem Girl you are right on target. My favourite singer is Mariah Carey. I think she has a beautiful voice. Celine is great too!

21 Jun 07

When You Miss Someone

ScarletAlston @ScarletAlston (2693) • United States 21 Jun 07

My friends here in MyLot know that I talk about my boyfriend a lot. They know how much I love him and how happy I am to have him in my life..they also know about how he gets into a lot of trouble..last week, he went to jail. I...

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bluegem Hey, I understand how you must be feeling right now. I encourage you to be strong. Try to reminisce about the good times that you had. Instead of thinking so much about the present situation, focus on the good memories as well as good things to come. The pain...

21 Jun 07

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Do people who kiss in public bother you?

laydlexius @laydlexius (133) • United States 16 Jun 07

I have been many places and there are a few where people had pure free spirit to slob each other down. In one sense, its okay I guess because thats how the person feels about whomever they are with, On the other hand, public...

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bluegem I dont have a problem with people kissing in public but they should be mindful of the way it is done. I agree that small children may be influenced by this but sometimes when people enjoy each other they get so caught up that they dont remember that others are...

16 Jun 07

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Do you appreciate the beauty of NATURE?

senses @senses (840) • Philippines 11 Mar 07

Take a look at some of the pictures at my blog. They are picture sof God given nature.Tell me if you appreciate its beauty! www.karolejoseph.blogspot.com Thank you!

appreciation

natures beauty

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bluegem Nature is magnificent. When you feel sad or even just tired, you can take a walk along the beach or just gaze upon the stars and it's guaranteed that you will feel relatively better. The beauty of nature transcends every thing else that is on earth. I can't...

11 Mar 07

The CHICKEN came first! No, the EGG came first!

w1z111 @w1z111 (985) • United States 10 Mar 07

OK.....let's settle this once and for all! We must have enought information available to prove which of these is true, no? Post your comments along with supporting data. For me, it was the CHICKEN! Or was it?...

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bluegem The chicken came first! God created all the animals and birds after their kind and Adam named them all. I'm sure Adam never looked at eggs and wondered to himself, "well this is probably going to be a chicken or is it a crocodile, hmmm???" The chicken (or...

10 Mar 07

Is it better to blend in or to stick out?

reaperz @reaperz (1266) • United States 10 Mar 07

What I mean by this is, if everyone all agrees on something, would you agree with them even though your opinion is different? Alot of people out there would choose to blend in with the crowd. Right? I probaly would too. What would...

blending in

sticking out

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bluegem No, I definitely believe in standing up for what I believe in. even if it means 'standing out' from the crowd. I like to be myself and so I wont jump on the bandwagon just to please others. However, one needs to realize that there is a difference between...

10 Mar 07

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What do you like to do on rainy days?

earth2jacq @earth2jacq (1502) • Philippines 6 Mar 07

I would love to stay in bed and wrap myself with my comforter. I would love to eat soup...any soup will do but I prefer chicken soup, cream of mushroom or corn soup. Then I would like to go to sleep then just watch TV and eat...

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bluegem I almost made a post like this earlier today. Guess you read my mind (lol). On rainy days I like to curl up in bed and dream away. You're right, it does give me an excuse to be lazy.

6 Mar 07

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my spring festival vacationg is over,

jenny19 @jenny19 (66) • China 2 Mar 07

this is the last day of my spring festival hoilday ,tomorrow i will go back to school. its not very convenient for me to on the internet in my school, so i am very sorry that i cant contact with mylot friends very often. wish...

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bluegem ohhhh, we hate to see you go so soon. Please make contact every chance you get. Let us know about school. Wishing you all the best in your studies. Take care of yourself and please dont snack too much (lol). Take care...

6 Mar 07

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Mother pleads guilty to using baby as a weapon

crazynurse @crazynurse (7482) • United States 6 Mar 07

Where does it end! A woman has plead guilty to using her 4 week old baby as a human 'bat.' The woman grabbed the baby by his feet and swung him like a bat, hitting her boyfriend during a fight, fracturing the baby's skull. What...

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bluegem It's easy for us to hurl insults and accusations at that woman but no one really knows the situation. Whatever drove her to do such a thoughtless act, we can never tell. I am not sure whether to be angry at her or feel sorry for her. I dont even know what she...

6 Mar 07

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