Do people who kiss in public bother you?
By laydlexius
@laydlexius (133)
United States
June 16, 2007 10:12pm CST
I have been many places and there are a few where people had pure free spirit to slob each other down. In one sense, its okay I guess because thats how the person feels about whomever they are with, On the other hand, public affection, is it that serious? I personally don't care but some people really get bothered by this. How do you feel? If someone just started smooching and you are outside of a fine diner or just mcdonald's how would you take it. I am the type of person to just be like yep just great, Go Get A Room! or I just laugh because one of them don't know how to kiss or what they are doing, then I might get real angry when there is groping involved. That's a major turn off and I really ask them to stop cause 9 times out of 10 my boys are staring. This is probably something people really don' think about. Hope it makes you think.......
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
22 Jun 07
If they are slobbing and tonguing they can save that for home or the room.But a peck holding hands,hug its okay.
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@rochellin (46)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
well, it doent really matter to me. I prefer to see couples french kissing in public than to see them having a fight in front of many people.
@jmusser (177)
• United States
17 Jun 07
I dont realy mind a little kissing . It shouldnt go to the extreme in public . But there are very few out there that believe in keeping things behind closed doors. My husband doesnt even like to hold hands in public ..... hes the extreme of against it and it totally pisses him off... I think it has a lot to do with your self values . If you get down and dirty in public you dont have much respect for yourself . Be it male or female
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
10 Aug 07
Public displays of affection do not bother me. I would rather see people expressing love and affection in public then fighting and causing harm to others. I don't know what the big awkward deal is about public displays of affection. To me they are fine!
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@rangics (1334)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
It bothers me honestly because we are not used to seing like that in our country. If someone tries to show too much of their PDA ( Public Display of Affection )it's quite disturbing to the public already. We live in a very conservative country so it will definitely become an issue if you're seen smoooching somwhere public. You're right pal, they should go and get a room. LOL! ;)
@laydlexius (133)
• United States
19 Jun 07
Being there are many different cultures who show affection for others in many different ways, there is nothing wrong with it. I would love for us to show love for each other versus fighting and killing or kidnapping. Its very frustrating in todays society to stick out, lets try not to stick out with our sexuality in the wrong places at the wrong time.
@jess_d_blue (385)
• United States
17 Jun 07
For the most part I go by this:
Showing affection in public isn't a bad thing. Like cuddeling, hugging, kissing etc under normal circumstances is fine.
However - if things become excessive like making out in the middle of McDonalds or in a store - yeah that's not cool.
I've never been one to have a lot of P.D.A. but this is because most of the places I go is with or around kids. Yes - kids know that people kiss etc. But they don't need to learn the birds and the bees in the middle of the playground!
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@laydlexius (133)
• United States
19 Jun 07
I agree with you. Its not that I like it or dont like it. People just seem to do it in the wrong places. Im not offended by it but I dont want my kids to figure it out that way.
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@angelicfied (928)
• United States
17 Jun 07
Yes.... It does bother me... It nasty and gross, and if they want to start A make out banging party, then get A room is how I see it, I have no problem with people being together, and all, but when they start doing stuff like that in public.... It is just repulsive, rude, immature, and extremely gross.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
17 Jun 07
yup. always make sure you are in a proper place to do it. there are lots of people around who can see you. it's not a place for you to do it, mostly, a public place, is a family place. people just don't think anymore these days... anne
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
17 Jun 07
It does not bother me as long as they are not doing anything else than a quick kiss. If they are kissing nonstop and all over then they should go home or get a hotel room and do their thing there but there is nothing wrong with a quick kiss. Children should not be seeing adults or teens smooching for long periods of time or doing other things in addition to kissing.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
17 Jun 07
Honestly it dosnt bother me that much. As long as they are not groping eachother Idont mind. If they are groping eachotherthen I will come right out and ask them to stop because kids are arround and it is rude.
@laydlexius (133)
• United States
17 Jun 07
I totally agree with you. Somewhere these guys have got to draw the line! Thanx for the response.
@bluegem (174)
• Dominican Republic
17 Jun 07
I dont have a problem with people kissing in public but they should be mindful of the way it is done. I agree that small children may be influenced by this but sometimes when people enjoy each other they get so caught up that they dont remember that others are around them.
@laydlexius (133)
• United States
17 Jun 07
Exactly, but at the same token I do tell my kids don't stare but its funny when they pick. It doesn't bother me when I am alone just when the kids are with me and the people act like they are the only ones on earth.
@celestemichelle (429)
• United States
17 Jun 07
I'm okay with short "pop" kisses on the street, and hugs, etc, but some people really cross the line into making out. I do break this rule myself on occasion, but only right before my husband leaves for a deployment or returns.
Sometimes I over react, especially when my then-fiancé was deployed. Living at a small college, I know most of the people there, and one couple I ran into a lot was always "making out like the titanic was going down" every time they had to separate for classes. Since I knew they were both religious I started yelling "Leave room for Jesus" at them.
@laydlexius (133)
• United States
19 Jun 07
Thats understandable, but when they just stand there and slob each other down for no reason its like they are trying to prove something I guess. I know its probably hard for you with your husband having to leave overseas. But I hope and pray that your kisses at that time will not be the last! God Bless you and your family.
@Cassy1976 (796)
• Australia
17 Jun 07
I dont like seeing people kiss in public, I find it rather embarrassing, I mean I dont mind if people just have a bit of a peck to say hello or goodbye but full on pashing is not good, I think that sort of thing should be done in private and not in public!
@magicnoire (102)
• United States
17 Jun 07
Public displays of affection such as holding hands, smack, less-than-a-minute kiss, a quick hug, and arm around the shoulder are ok, but beyond these I think people should realize that it is inappropriate and quite unpleasant to see especially, when there are kids around.
Most of the time, it doesn't bother me, but when it gets to the point where you are tempted to tell them to get a room, then I know they have gone overboard.
I have a niece who was like this when she was in high school and I felt embarrassed everytime she and her bf have these kinds of public displays of affection where I'm tempted to tell them to get a room kind of thing going on. It's been a few years after high school and I hope she is no longer like that. But if she still is, I'm just glad that I'm not subjected to them anymore like I used to when I had to pick them up after school.
I'm happy that people have found someone to feel that way about, but do we have to know about it and see it. You don't need to prove anything to us; it's between the two of you, then just keep it that way.
@laydlexius (133)
• United States
19 Jun 07
Exactly, I don't people to think they have to prove that the person they are with belongs to them if thats the case. Its not that serious. But sharing love when it just runs accross your mind is not a problem. Just don't display the bedroom in the street!
@laydlexius (133)
• United States
17 Jun 07
I have learned that if you walked up to a person very meekly and humble they will go off on you like you killed there best friend. But some of them will show respect. You may have to go into details about what your reasons are but people really do get offended. I figure sometimes they just want attention and they will do whatever it takes to get it. They should really learn that enough might just be enough if you are getting "hot in the pants".
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
17 Jun 07
a smack on the lips or the neck is okey in public places. it's just a matter of a second i guess. but smooching and doing it longer, i find it rude for them to do this. that's why it's called a public place... children can be there. but people just tend to go on to what they feel. not thinking of who are the people around.
yup. "mind your own business" is true. but they should be responsible, too and do those smooching and petting in a private place.
whenever i see people like that, i just don't look at them. i feel more ashamed on what they are doing. but if they just do the i love you smacks, i smile and say "oh, they are so inlove."... anne
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
17 Jun 07
If your boys stare at a couple who are kissing, its obvious they are not used to seeing it. If thats the case you need to demonstrate Love to them. Your boys need to see you and your spouse kissing. This is a demonstration of Love. Love is what makes the world go round. Love is All There Is! God is Love!
Lets get together and Make Love. If you really Love you can do it anywhere. Its SO much better than Killing, or hurting!
God Knows our cities are dangerous places. WE need Love sweet Love. Always applaud when you see LOVE demonstarted. I Love to Love and I Love to be LOved, and I LOVE to LOve.I LOVE LOVE !
@vampoet (825)
• Singapore
17 Jun 07
Yes, I am bothered by people who kiss in public. I mean, as long as you and your partner knows what you feel for each other isn't that enough? Why the need for PDA (public display of affection)? They should be more sensitive to us singles out there. hahahaha.
@saierchok (1294)
• United States
17 Jun 07
Not at all!! if I'm bothered then it's only because I had no one to kiss at that very same moment.. watching love seens and love birds every were is always a pleasure for me :)
@loopylou2406 (382)
•
17 Jun 07
i personally donr mind it, but i think people stare at m eif my fiancee goes to kiss me in puvlic and i aint on about a peak on the cheek either!! LOL