home birth would you/have you
By purplegirl
@purplegirl (12)
Australia
February 16, 2007 11:06pm CST
would you or have you delivered at home purposely? i don't mean not getting to the hospital on time, but actually planning a home birth. i'm curious as i'm pregnant with my fourth baby, the other three were hospital births constantly being poked, prodded and ignored, your just the unfortunate side effect of delivering the baby. no offence to anyone, that's just how it felt to me. anyway, did you have a good/bad experience labouring at home, would you have changed anything?
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@harwoodkp (285)
• United States
17 Feb 07
my wife did over a 1000 home births as a lay midwife. right now she is not doing any because she got her nurses liscense. When she is certified as a nurse midwife she would do it again. Through all that, check with NARM to find their registared midwives. These nurses have to have certain qualifications to be registared, so it might be a little less scary for you.
I would suggest you go for it.
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@mememama (3076)
• United States
17 Feb 07
I'm thinking of having one for the next baby. I'm not pregnant, but the hospital experience with our son was so terrible I really don't want to go to back. They really meddle too much and the aftercare, that was just awful! I think that was the worst part, having some strangers take my baby away for testing, gettting asleep finally only to have some nurse come in and interupt me, and I think we all know about hospital food ;) I don't get why I had to stay there for a few days either, we were fine. My husband has actually brought up trying a waterbirth at home!
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@ThreeAandI (79)
• United States
17 Feb 07
I have two children and I deliver them at the hospital. I guess I trust the hospital better, just in case something goes wrong and need a C-section. Plus I am sooo afraid of pain, I absolutely need epidural which only the hospital is able to give me that.