Can you love two persons at the same time?

@dipima (172)
India
February 17, 2007 2:30am CST
This fren of mine is bit confused these days.She has a very steady and caring boyfren.She too loves him.And there's this guy she has met recently.They clicked instantly.Is it possible to fall in love with two persons at the same time?Please drop some comments.
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@xelissa (776)
• New Zealand
17 Feb 07
Feelings can't be controlled, therefore its possible, but depths and how strongly she feels about each are varied, she can't love both peoples at the same rate, but its who you choose to be with that counts and whether you act upon your feelings (if you have them for 2 people)
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• United States
17 Feb 07
I think it's possible. But probably on different depths or types of love. Just like loving past loves even if you have a current flame. I think it's okay as long as you're not cheating and wanting to be with someone other than the one you are with.
@sunnypub (2128)
• United States
17 Feb 07
the heart cannot be controlled. Yes I belive it is possible to love more than one person at a time. That doesn't mean you need to try to hold onto two people at once because I think that is wrong, but you can certainly have feeling for more than one. What is boils down to is which one you love more, or which one you really want to be with. A decission does have to be made but it has to be made with care.
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
17 Feb 07
There are many greedy females, who wants to be loved by many. But Loving two guys is like riding two horses. It will not lead anywhere except a fall.
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• Philippines
17 Feb 07
you cant love two persons at the same time. you need to choose who you really love