letting go...
By clarah_cille
@clarah_cille (654)
Philippines
February 19, 2007 4:08am CST
its really hard to let go of someone who became a part of your life. sometimes we feel that maybe we can easily move on after what had happened but when your really in the situation, you'll never know what to do. it seems that it will took years before the wound would heal. i guess im really deeply inlove to say these words. i've been mature everyday as i realized that being into relationship affects of who i am. i've learned a lot of things and was able to know myself better.
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7 responses
@perfectstranger (727)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 07
You are right. It always painfull when we must let go the one that we love in our life. But I think let go them to make their own choise is the best choise for us to make them happy and make us happy. If I feel sad, usually I go to place that far away from my home. To find someone new, to start a new page, to refresh my herat, to cure all the wound, meet new people and usually i will found every pieces of my life that have lost. To find that I'm still precious enough for this world:)
@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
1 Aug 07
yeah, we sometimes need space to think and re-evaluate the things that are happening in our life. i guess we just need to move on and let go if needed.
@ylimeloka (40)
• India
30 Jun 07
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you,loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
13 Jul 07
well, that would be the situation if u don't care and love that certain person. but if that someone is really special to you, you will never ever do that to him/her.
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
yeah exactly your right. sometimes it is very easy to say when the situation is not yet infront of us but when it is already there you cant really do what you have in mind because it deals with emotion. it will take a lot of time but the important thing is you have learn and turn you into a more better person.
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@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
Letting go of someone is real difficult.Dealing with your feelings and emotions is not an easy task.You need time to overcome this stage that will come in our life!But if you know how to accept reality,then everything will be in the right track!
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@gigisexy (219)
• Philippines
19 Feb 07
It is very hard..i know how it feels I am on a relationship of long distance nothing is wrong w/ us he is just legally married but we are together for almost 6 yrs. now and it bothr's me so much that i dont have peace of mind thinking how long this would last?? i tried several times to let it go but,my feeling couldn't do it.Well if you can't do it or you have done it already good luck my friend i admire you at your age beeing tough.Go on do what is possibly good for you...
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
thanks, i hope you're strong enough too to let go at the right time. things are not really easy but sometimes we need to face the reality and accept it. life's like that. we have to learn from our mistakes and be a better person as the days go by.
@dubaimt (273)
• United Arab Emirates
20 Feb 07
letting go is one of the easiest phrases that anybody can give, but the difficult thing to do if you are in the situation. letting go is so hard especially if the person you are letting go has been a good friend way before the relationship started to turn sour. but then, the only way to allow the healing to start is to.. exactly, let go of the thing that has hurt you in the first place. let go, so that you can have both hands to capture whatever life has in store for you. live, love and let go girl! have a nice day!
@funkyshankar (284)
• India
19 Feb 07
Ima sorry if such a situation has happened in your life..dont worry time is the best heal for everything..and very soon u wil lfind someone who cares for you more and understand u..all the best..bye
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
thanks for the advice..yeah, only time can heal the wound. just have to be strong and move on.
