To moms and dads, what do you feel when your first child is born?

Indonesia
February 19, 2007 6:41pm CST
This question have been tickling my heart for a long time. I am not married nor have children yet but yes, I still am curious about that. And I am sure it'll be the greatest story ever. So moms and dads out there, what do you feel exactly? How does it feel when you realize that you are parents now? Is it like a miracle?Please share! :)
5 responses
@mememama (3076)
• United States
20 Feb 07
The first minutes were very surreal, it felt like I was in some movie, tons of emotions came forth at once:happiness, being scared, tired, overjoyed-I was a mess and I didn't really know how to handle it. I think the first few weeks were very hard, set your alarm clock to go off every 2 hours. Keep yourself awake for 30 minutes, repeat:that's what it felt like lol. After that, it was a breeze and it felt like I had been doing this forever. I became more grateful towards my mother and what she has done for me.
• Indonesia
20 Feb 07
And that is why I believe that being a mother is a very noble job. Now I know that I only know how it feels when I become a mom, in the future. It's a real hardwork, but I am sure it really worths it.
@red1976 (92)
• United States
20 Feb 07
Everyone always told me the feeling was unexplainable and I thought they were just saying that. But then I had my first daughter and it's true. It literally felt like one of those scenes in a movie where the room falls silent and only you, your baby and your husband are in the moment. It's incredible. Incredibly, it happened with my next daughter as well. It's a miracle and the moment certainly is beyond words!
• Indonesia
20 Feb 07
I bet it is! I should've known before starting this discussion that all the resposes I might get would only make me envy the responders lol.
@apky12 (769)
• United States
20 Feb 07
It's really hard to explain how you feel. I think it's complete joy and love like you've known this little person forever. It's just a miracle that you get pregnant and the child grows inside you. When the baby is born all that anticipation that has led up to this point just kind of bursts you open with complete happiness. The baby is so tiny and you just love them so much. You just sit there and think how did I ever create such a perfect human being. You also think there is nothing in the world that could ever compare to that moment of you looking at something you created with your best friend and the person you love so much.
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
20 Mar 07
I have only one child. I desired him really very very much, and unfortunately I have no words to tell you my mood when he was born. Children are the greatest masterpiece an human being can do.... it's the most exciting experience in the world. My son is the most imporant thing in the world, I'd die for him. You are right: it'll be the greatest story ever.
@220870 (249)
• India
20 Feb 07
When my first child was born I was ecstatic, but I had no energy to express it then. But I was not prepared for the sleepless nights that followed. It is then that I realized the pains that parents take in upbringing a child. To me the birth of my first child felt like a miracle because I could not believe that there was a life within me.