What is finding the love of your life meant changing the life that U loved?
By sweetrala
@sweetrala (1436)
Philippines
February 20, 2007 12:40am CST
This is one of the tag lines from the romantic comedy movie Fools Rush In(1997).Starring Matthew Perry and Salma Hayek.Its a story of a one night stand between two very different people in everyway.The guy an up and coming architech, the girl a struggling photograpehr.One night was all it take to change their loves forever.
If this were to happend to u. would u change ur life to be with the love of your life?Lets explore on this for a moment.
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6 responses
@vkbllm (474)
• India
20 Feb 07
Well Hi sweetrala,
I just haven seen that movie yet! But I got enough of ideas about that movie by your mere short explanation!
To answer you, well I'm not at all certain what to say,
I havent meet my love yet so just can say you any thing
But I can dare to say I may chang Life I loved for my
love a bit, If my love finds too much difficulty to
adjust with my existing life! But my love also adjust
equally to me so that the balance of life is not disturbed!
@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
Its a really good movie, though its kinda old coz it was released in the 90's.I think if u really love each other,u both adjust to each others lives.Make it work.Thanks for dropping by.
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
I would not let my loveone change the way i deal with my life so far as me. If you really love somebody you have nothing to do but to accept what she is and what she has. You have nothing to do but to love all those things that your loveone happy of doing this.
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@bestfriends (876)
• Australia
21 Feb 07
Oh sounds like a good movie. I have not seen the show so I can't really understand and picture the situation. But to your title of course I got it and it is a question obviously. My answer to that is YES! and NO! I'll probably change to certain extent. But if I think in doing so is also ruining my respect and love for myself, I wouldn't and I will give up my love on the other person. After all, love is not changing someone it is embracing and accepting in what's in you. Sorry, maybe I have a different views or I just didn't get the question right. As I said, I have not seen the movie.
@sunnypub (2128)
• United States
20 Feb 07
I have seen the movie and I thought it was great. I really enjoyed it and laughed a lot. I think that Mathew Perry's character didn't really love his life. It was just the only life he knew, and he didn't know what the other options were. I could be wrong, but that is my thought.
I myself would change the life I loved if I loved the person more, but I think that waht would really happen is that I would realize I didn't relaly love the life as much as I thought.
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@sweetrala (1436)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
Yup,i like the movie too.Its when we have more is when we realize tahtwhat we thought we love is everthing but its just a part of it.Thanks
@belle0818 (81)
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
Definitely I'll do. It happened to me but not the one night stand thing. what i meant was finding the love of your life doesnt happened easily, its by chance.
I have left the kind of life that i used to love just to be with this the love of my life.
Because in truly loving someone its all about putting his/her happiness about your own.