Is love and lust same?
By anand22986
@anand22986 (9)
India
October 14, 2006 1:36am CST
i feel love is just the euphemised word for lust ,what is your stand .
20 responses
@charlesming (1865)
• Singapore
14 Oct 06
i'd say a lot of people misuse the word love to represent a lot of words. lust.fondness.affection. etc etc.
it is so overused that the magic of love somehow has faded overtime...
overused.
lust is another thing all together...
@charlesming (1865)
• Singapore
16 Oct 06
yeh it is sad. and a lot of people get cheated and hurt along the way..
@srhelmer (7029)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
23 Oct 06
There's a big difference between love and lust. If you are with a man/woman because you think they are good looking, it's lust. If you would still be with them even when they are old and gray, then it's love.
@Nova7213 (40)
• United States
23 Oct 06
They are most definetly different... this is coming from someone who recently learned the difference. Love is about caring for someone more than you can express and wanting the best for them, admiration in a sense. Lust is more sexually charged and is more about your desire to be near someone. Just like loving someone and being in love with someone are different.
@achilles7 (1276)
• India
19 Oct 06
love is eternal and lust in temporary.so love and lust are different.
@Lackingstyle (7509)
•
16 Oct 06
Lust is a want, you want somebody it doesn't mean you need them. Lust can be a strong basis for love however, love is forever, someone you can't imagine your day without.
@Ljorge (1487)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I beleive that Love and Lust are 2 totally different things but there is a fine line between the two.
Loveing someone is being there for them thinking about them all the time and wanting to spend time with them. Wanting to marry them and have a family and all that good stuff.
Lusting over someone is mor or less just wanting to sleep with them and being obsessed with the way they look, with out even knowing their personality..
@johnsanthosh123 (65)
• United Arab Emirates
15 Oct 06
lust is totally different from love .we can have lust overanyone its a just physicall attraction but love does not happen always to anyone
@browneyedwomen (1827)
• United States
16 Oct 06
as far as I new lust was something you thought was love..you cant tell the difference at the time...but after the fact you truely understand...
@indiandevil (2410)
• Canada
15 Oct 06
No love if a caring tender feeling you have for someone and always will have for someone...
Where as Lust is a feeling you don't have with your heart and mind, you have with other functions of your self as you are in "love" with the atractive Features of a person, and not the person them self.