Your guy tells you you're fat!
@faylinn_chaeli (1619)
Philippines
February 20, 2007 5:57am CST
Actually I Just came back from a trip, with my boyfriend. Ok, during the trip he took some pictures, etc., and just this morning the pictures have been printed, and so that's it, I saw our picture and realized how fat I've become. I've gained weight eversince I started to become addict in computer, I am always sitting in front of the computer, after eating, sitting again. Then my guy told me, you're gaining weight! I don't know if that's an insult or he just cares about me. Well, it's a bit offensive though but I think it can serve as a motivation to lose weight.
1 person likes this
5 responses
@apky12 (769)
• United States
20 Feb 07
My husband would never tell me this only because he knows how obsessed I would become about it. Guys don't think like women though. He may have just said it just b/c he noticed. He's probably just thinking like a guy. He probably thinks if someone said it to him it would be no big deal but to a girl it's a very big deal. The pictures more than his words would give me motivation. Don't take it to heart though. I'm sure he didn't really mean anything by it. Good luck!
@sunshinecup (7871)
•
20 Feb 07
No, those are words no man can say. In fact I think it's a law written many, many years ago...
"Thou shalt not whisper a word about thy woman's spreading."
Yep I am pretty sure it goes something like that. LOL
Honestly, it hurts to realize, but I do appreciate when hubby tells me what I need to hear. He knows I don't want to be over weight and if I don't do anything until I reach that point, it's going to be harder on me. So I don't mind when he drops the hints. Of course since I am the cook here, we all go on diets when I do. :o)
@winky73 (1404)
• United States
20 Feb 07
It would definately depent on how it was said.Sometimes we just make a statement about something without even thinking about it or meaning any harm by it.
At least he didn't say something like"man you are getting fat"....now that would have been a insult.
He most likely loves you just the way you are....even with the extra pounds.
In this case it could serve as a motivation.....would be nice to hear him say"wow you look really sexy!".
@ghoenne (31)
• Philippines
20 Feb 07
yah right!!! That's too much offensive!! We have the same experience!!! My boyfriend says that im bigger than bigger!! That's why i got angry!!! I think he don't love me that much not like the past!! That's why i do anything just to get my body shape back!!!
