Is it right to be pregnant before marriage???

I think it's ok, as long as both parents are involved, marriage can happen after, I am pregnant now and we are planning to get married after I have the baby.

I was 7 months pregnant when I walked down the aisle. I think it is more and more common these days and there's nothing wrong with it unless someone is super religious!

It is not our place to judge. I personally think nobody should.

I was pregnant before marriage and im a christian. I had walked away from God at the time and was staying at my boyfriends house. I would come home to wash clothes or get mail but then it was back to his house. I was 20 at the time and became pregnant. We are married now and im 22 but I think it is better to be married first. Children deserve a family to be raised in I think, im blessed that my husband chose to stay with me at the time to raise our daughter then propose to me and marry me.

You know, I was pregnant before I was married, my son was two months old at my wedding, and though it wasn't morally right, I don't think we should necessarily condone people for it either.

My Mom was, I can't see why it is wrong? It's ok :)

I dont think it right or wrong. It depend on couple. I had my daughter before I married to her daddy. I wasnt worried about wedding or be marriage before she was born. As long as couple knows they are going to stay for good, get married, marriage dont have to come before other events.

I think it is not right. It make that we can be in a peace mind.

It would be better if pregnancy was postponed until a person is married. But, everyone makes mistakes. I was 3 months pregnant when I got married. I wish I had waited until we were already married and financially more secure.

I was pregnant before I got married, I don't see a problem with it at all.

Honestly, my opinion is... You need to make sure this is the person you are going to Marry and spend your life with for the rest of your life, as every child needs a Mother and a Father, and it would be best if they grow up with both of these 2 in their lives. Also with all of the Diseases out there, even if you use Birth Control you cannot always protect yourself from many of the STDS and Aids out there. But if you are sure you are able to both be ready for Marriage or a committment to this child, then and only then should it be acceptable. If you are not ready to have a Child Age wise, $$ wise, or just over all ready to be a Parent, wait until you are ready, and save yourself a lot of headaches and heartache later.

right, oh my goodness, im so sick of every one trying to live up to what they think there "suppost to be" do what makes you happy if baby falls before a peice of paper so be it, life happends as it happends, dont stress what hsould be, make a new life an interesting life

Absolutely...of course its not the right choice for everyone but I personally see nothing wrong with it..I had all 3 of my kids out of wedlock and never married the father of my oldest two at all..we never had any intention of getting married actually..

This scenario is very common nowadays and I don't see anything wrong with it. Pushing yourself to get married even if you don't want to because of the baby and giving up the baby to abortion is the wrong thing to do.

I don't think there is anything wrong with it, UNLESS you we're just out whoring around without protection. If it's with someone you plan on staying with, you love, or a common mishap with someone your with so be it. But how about these women on Maury who are testing 20 different guys who could possibly be there childs father because they slept with them around that time. Sheesh, thats a little bit far out of reach.

Yes. I dont think you have to be married to have a child. Especially if you plan on marrying that person

No I Think Its wrong

Well I guess the real question is is he marrying for the childs sake. My mom got pregnant with me then made my dad wait until I was 1 year old before agreeing to marry him because she wanted to make sure he loved her and it wasn't a got to do it because I got her pregnant thing. Not right but it happens, I think there are plenty of ways to avoid it that there is no excuse.

I don't think it's a good idea.Because it can bring a lot of problem,some girls have to abort.And It's harmful to their body.

i think its not right .you have to get married and then have a child.