How do you react when your Partner despite many efforts fails to understand the

Often I try to explain something to my husband and he simply doesn't understand where I am coming from. Eventually he will catch my drift and say, "why didn't you say that in the first place?" Incidentally I usually did say that in the first place, thats winds me up more than trying to get him to understand the points I am making. I do find it frustrating at times but I don't give up until he fully understands.

well, I have experienced the same situation more than hundred times. I think the best solution is to keep patience and faith in your spouse. Try to ponder on what your partner wants . Don't dare to argue with him. Be chill and listen what he says. Try to convince him with your patience and love . Be affectionate and sincere. Last but not the least.... Don't loose hope. The bright sunny day is waiting for you!!!

I am not yet married and not have GF yet so this situation have never came to my life. However, I would like to share something here. If I am in such situation, I would rather leave the things for some time, I will do other things to make my partner relaxed and all. Once she get freshed I will try my level best to make her understand about the things.