Who should make the first move???

United States
February 21, 2007 6:57pm CST
Considering your own view and opinion, who should make the first move? The guy or the girl? I know some will say in this day and time it is not so taboo for girls to be aggressive and make the first move, but personally I cannot do it. haha.. So how about you? Do you think girls should still just wait for guys to make the first move or should they be more aggressive and snag the guy the like? Any personal experiences with this?
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mssnow
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
22 Feb 07
I was brought up to be all girl. With that said, I would say the guy unless he is younger than me. lol. If he is my age or close to my age i would expect him to make the move. If he is like way younger (yes I have had dates who were) Then I pretty much helped it along a bit. lol
smints8985
@smints8985 (1594)
• United States
22 Feb 07
hahah!!! yeah I can somehow relate to what you meant, like there's this mentality that if he's younger it's like you won't feel as embarrased to make a move as compared to someone your age or much mature.. ahaha... but just clearing things out... I'm not into younger guys... ehmm.. ahahhaha
mssnow
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
22 Feb 07
LOL Im not usually but I met one and we had so much in common.Age just didnt matter
djmarion
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
22 Feb 07
its still the guy who should make the first move. its nice to be the one who will be courted right.
smints8985
@smints8985 (1594)
• United States
22 Feb 07
Yeah! I can't even imagine how it looks like in cases where the girl is the one making the moves, like the girls courting the guy... kinda... hmm weird I don't even know how it goes.. ahha
crosa125
@crosa125 (1483)
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24 Feb 07
well if a girl make a first move to me i won't be that much consider to be that close to that girl i really do like the game hard to get so i prefer to take the first step myself.;
yanjiaren
@yanjiaren (9031)
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22 Feb 07
well if both of you are shy nothing will ever happen..i think we should try our luck if we like someone..when i saw my hubby's profile on the internet i pounced on it like a little tiger rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrh lol..if i hadn't written to him..he would not have even noticed me lol..cos i hadn't even uploaded a pic..he only wanted a girl from u.s..but he said my email burnt off all the other girls..he said i had a very strong yi or will and he loved my witty writing lol.. so it goes to show..if we wait for the men every time..pho you might have to wait till the next life..if you like someon say it..the worst that could happen is you get a no..i won him over with poetry ...there is a way you can apporach the man..one doesn'r have to do it in a tarty way..
myownswordsman
@myownswordsman (102)
• China
24 Feb 07
one who made wrong first should making move first .. no matter its guy or girl ..i used to make the first move
shahani
@shahani (36)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
I think the guy should make the first move...
kalpan_vasa
@kalpan_vasa (324)
• India
22 Feb 07
I think anyone could make the first move. I don't believe that only boy could make first move or something. I believe, your first move must be very honest and with complete passion. I am sure once you do that way, you will surely get success in that.