Deleting friends ?

I would not be offended but I love having your rainbow picture in my friends list. I love rainbows to me they mean good luck. That is really nice of you to even post a discussion like this and ask. Some people just delete and do not even care. You are very sincere and polite person to even thing of asking and not wanting to hurt their feelings. You should be proud of yourself.

even i got many frnds under my id..wid whom i dnt able to chat or talk much.. ni have del few already

You sound like me....so many people you cannot keep up with and you really never look into what they have to offer mylot. I have a mssive amount of friends and I never talk to any of them! I recently looked into what they had discussion-wise and had gone through pages and pages of their material to find I wasn't intersted in any of it! I honestly don't think poepl would even notice if you deleted them. As many people don't know who they have on their lists. How can on possibly keep up with hundreds of people, most (or all) of which they have never even met?

i would not be offended too. sometimes its not easy to catch all discussions from my friends. i try to answer all what i can. but i understand what you mean, its needed sometimes to "clean the house". ;-)

i decided not to delete anyone even though i have the same common problem..i tend to answer the ones that answer me more regularly and still try to post responses when i can to others..it doesn't matter any more..but i do understand you cos i had reached that point..but now i can't do it..i don't know why lol..good luck..

LOL -DON'T YOU DARE DELETE ME! Actually I did some housecleaning the other night of my "friends" some that I've never heard anything from and some who have sent me a hundred discussions but not responded to one of mine. Come on, how difficult is it to respond to something like how many radios do you have, what rooms are they in, and which do you listen to most? Seriously, I love your discussions and would like to remain your friend.

Well to start with I am fairly new to myLot so I may be just a tad upset not angry if I was deleted. I have yet to delete any as I only have a handfull anyhow. As far as talking with a y friends here thats a ways off for me. Ive sent messages to a few on my list. I also try to post a comment ever so often on the friends site that I respond to their topics etc. So Im trying to be a good so called friend etc here. Anyhow if you wish to delete me or any other friends that is your perogative. I wont be hurt angry etc. Have a good day here also. Thanks for this topic. I loved most the replies so far also.

Dam. Grandpa Bobs head is on the chopping block? HAHAHA.

I wouldn't be offended if someone deleted me for a valid point. I of course delete the so-called friends who are neither active nor respond to my discussions. I did some cleaning not too long ago and now am left with good reliable friends, some who are so close to me that it is unbelievable. We mutually help each other out by responding to each others' discussions(the ones that interest us). when I first joined I accepted every request that came my way, only later did I realize it was of no use.

Personally i do not delete any friends at all as i have way too many to even go through! However i will say that i do have my favorites here and i always know how to find their discussions! I just sent you a friend request just before i came to respond to this ... LOL! I am just hoping that i was not one that you deleted already .... LMAO!! Take care and God Bless! Oh and no i would not be offended as you are absolutely right !

For me, I think of my mylot friends as real friends. For example, if you have a "live" friend and you do not have contact with him or her for a long time, would you stop being their friend? Would you tell them that you are no longer their friend just because you haven't heard from them for quite a while? If you want your friends to respond to your discussions then maybe you should send them a private message. I do this sometimes to remind others that I'm still here, although I'm not as active as I once was.

Hi, Like one of your other responders, I too delete non-active members who haven't been online for awhile! I've also deleted members who don't ever bother replying to my discussions, and those who I don't have much in common with. I try to keep my friends to a minimum and only keep those with quality discussions - harsh but I try to respond to my friends discussions at least 3 times per week, I'm limited to time on mylot due to work and stuff so I prefer to have quality rather than quantity. I know those that I do have on my list respond to discussions and have decent discussions of their own! Don't feel guilty about it - Friends are the most important people on here as when your discussions are not going well, you know that your friends will always reply!

No, happymom, I wouldn't be offended if I were to be deleted from your friends list. Especially since you don't have the time to respond to me. It would certainly cut down on the confusion. If I couldn't respond to all the friend on my list, I think that I'd delete them to take the stress off myself. So, thank you.