A lesson worth remembering..playing around with other persons feelings.........

It is true that you should treat people like you would wish to be treated. Balance is often achieved at their expense when they have not participated in life they should. It is shameful that others were 'hurt' by his actions and now I am hoping they find healing and are able to live life peacefully and successfully.

well what goes around come around, maybe he think twice now then what in his pants, wel done 2 the girls. once a lier and a cheat will alway be a cheat,

well no doubt it was his fault and i can definitely imagine the shame and humiliation he woulod have got that way in the church.... but then I guess it was quite immatured of the girls to do that all hoo---bla -- la reaction in the church.... I mean they should have thought that it was ONE BIG YEAR by then and might the situations have changed, and even if they did not change, atleast they were not with him anymore, neither he was running after them -- they got settled and acquired a happy peaceful life then why ruin someone's life.... and that is what they did -- If i pity on the guy, I 'd definitely pity on the girl's poor sense of understanding and maturity... it is like i slapped a friend of mine in class 3, so he would be slapping me back ten years down the line when we meet in aprty or something......quite immatured!!!

How he thought he was going to get away with this is beside me. I think he is terrible and all three woman should beat the daylights out of him. I would not be surprised if he married each one of them. I was wondering is he with any of the three woman or have they all gotten smart and kicked him to the curb. I do not believe in karma because what he was doing was bound to catch up to him.

As saying goes ..."As you sow so shall you reap"...Unless an untill u act properly u wont be rewarded in the future ..what u need is to take extreme care of ur actions and doings so that in future u dont need to repent of your acts...so be honest and hard-working so that one may nevr face such embarassing situations as one described above which leads nuthing more than downfall of an individual....

That is such a sad story. I hoped he learned his leasson. If not now, he will feel the shame some time later in his life. when you're young, you feel so invincible. But time will come when he finds himself with no one. And if he remembers all those hurt feelings he caused, he will be haunted by guilt. That is not a good way to live. I think that if you have the chance you should advise him to straighten up his act, and make ways to be reconciled with these women and his children. Of course, he has to be really sincere and ready for this. I hope it wont be too late then....

that serves him right... he does something really shameful and he just gets his serve during his wedding day... and it is good that at the end he gets none of the girl because i think he will repeat the same mistake again with his wife if his past two ex-gf don't show up in his wedding and wreck his marriage... i really think people like him doesn't deserve to enjoy a marriage life unless if he really repents and realises his mistakes...

I am sorry to say but i think he kind of deserved it. It is not ok for ANYONE to play with peoples feeling like he has. To date 3 girls at ones is ok IF they are aware of the fact that they are not exclusive. If he lies to them telling them that she is the only one than he is nothing but a player..

I'm a firm believer that we reap what we sow. Maybe he learned his lesson and will find the right girl for him (only one) and will treat her better.

It was defiitely wrong for him to be dating 3 women at one time. What is even more wrong is that those 2 women did not inform him about his child and came at the wedding to wreak havoc. What they should ahve done was inform and involve him so that he could in turn tell the woman he was marrying about it. That way atleast she could make a decision after thoroughly thinking about it.

i think what happened to him was really a karma...well, good for him. at least he learned his lesson, wlthough it was the hard way since he had to pay for what he did.he should not do it again

What happened is absolutely justice and karma, may be he had taught a hard lessen from that situation. Sure we have to be careful specially with feeling for others. Suppose that he told them before to be just as friends and let anything to happen afterthat then, every thing had to be steady and may be they would come to his marriage for sharing his happiness moments.

hurting other's feeling will always result in such consequences.This should be a good lesson to others also who are involved in such things.rather the question now should be do these persons will ever improve. www.earnwhileyoulearn.co.nr

sad to hear what happen but its definitely his fault, why cant a man settle for just one? havent u guys realize that ur hurting feelings, and not just one person... everyone whos involve...

This is a very good lesson to learn for guys out there who are playing other persons' feelings. I hope your friend did really learned that lesson very well.

Ya it sounds like he got some relationship karma coming back to him. It sounds like a weird situation and its too bad that the kids probably wont get to know there dad. Oh well mayby hes learned his lesson by now and the next time he finds someone he wants to be with hell be able to treat her the way he would want to be treated

Wow your poor friend, I bet he could just kick himself for it all now. I guess what they say is true...what comes around goes around. It's always best to be honest and not try to hide what we are doing. I feel bad for his poor bride to be.. I'm sure she was devestated. Well I hope he learned from his mistakes.

This is a sad story alright... This is what happens to guys who cheats on their girls and they do deserve to get punished for it. Karma always comes to people who do bad to others...

his fault no pitty here but I do fell for the wife to be and the kids

all the wrong doings have an appropriate payment for it... ... wa have no rights to play for the feelings of others.... and should be contented.. hmmmm... I felt sad to this post... as I also experience that... its really painful.. you'll never know the pain that u feel when someone cheated on you and just leave you behind after all the things you've shared.... well... thatz not right... but sometimes.. you just need to accept it.. learn to forgive and to forget... thatz life... :)