Piano lessons

@Debs_place (10520)
United States
February 23, 2007 10:19pm CST
Many people took piano lessons as a kid. DId you? Did you appreciate them or argue about taking them until you got out of it? Do you wish you had stuck with it? Do you think the piano lessons have helped you? Do you want or will you make your kids take piano lessons?
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@villageanne (8553)
• United States
25 Feb 07
I wanted to take piana lessons so badly but we could not afford them. When I had daughters of my own. I saw to it that they had lessons. I am not sure if it was really for them or me. I love to hear them play. they took all the lessons available and they play beautifully.
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• United States
25 Feb 07
LOL What does an elephant in heat sound like???LOLOL
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Yes, I to wanted to take piano lessons, and what really bugs me now is my parents had a piano that they gave away. My son took piano briefly, he did not like it. He was more into hockey. Later, on he took trumpet lessons, that was awful, he sounded like an elephant in heat.
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
16 Mar 07
Like my son playing the trumpet.
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@wmg2006 (5381)
• United States
26 Feb 07
I did take lesson when I was very young. I could play by ear real well, but my Mother insisted I take lesson. Well that ruined it for me even wanting to play at all. I complained the whole time I took them. I do wish I had stuck with them though, but I do play the piano some and now the guitar. I would only want my child to lessons if he/she really had a desire.
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@wmg2006 (5381)
• United States
23 Mar 07
I would probably ask them to give it one more try and if they really hated I would let them stop taking lessons.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Would you ask your child to stick it out ..if they showed promise of talent?
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@caribe (2465)
• United States
25 Mar 07
I took a few lessons and loved it, but I didn't have a piano at home to practice on. I practiced at school or church. Then I was given a choice as an 8 year old girl to continue a few more piano lessons or get an accordion to play. It was an odd choice because I wouldn't have anyone to teach me to play the accordion. I chose to have the accordion and I learned to play it by ear, picking up tips here and there from people that I met that played. I went on to teach myself piano, organ, and keyboard by ear. I was determined to prove to my parents that it wasn't a mistake to buy me the accordion. I played it when it wasn't that popular an instrument to play, but it really fascinated me and I was always searching new things and sounds that I could make with it. I wasn't a big talker as a child, but I learned that if I played my accordion people would gather around to listen and I loved that. It was my way of communicating my feelings whether happy or sad. I wouldn't force my children to take piano lessons if they really, really hated it but I would want them to try first and see if they liked it.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
26 Mar 07
What do you mean accordion wasn't popular, in my family it was a hot commodity. You can't play a good polka without one. I want piano lessons from the time I was 3, my parents had a piano, they gave it away when I was about 9. I begged for lessons, My great aunt had an accordion, I was 5 and realized it was a portable piano and asked her to teach me to play. It was bigger and heavier then I was. Instead, my bigger older brother got it, he hated it, my parents tossed it. I agree, have the kids try the lessons and give it a shot before you let them say no.
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
26 Mar 07
What do you mean accordion wasn't popular, in my family it was a hot commodity. You can't play a good polka without one. I want piano lessons from the time I was 3, my parents had a piano, they gave it away when I was about 9. I begged for lessons, My great aunt had an accordion, I was 5 and realized it was a portable piano and asked her to teach me to play. It was bigger and heavier then I was. Instead, my bigger older brother got it, he hated it, my parents tossed it. I agree, have the kids try the lessons and give it a shot before you let them say no.
• United States
27 Feb 07
I never took piano lessons as a kid, but I did get my first real guitar for junior high school graduation. I did get proficient with it over the summer, & got my first electric guitar on my 14th birthday. I sort of learned a little bit of piano, as I knew where the notes were, but I never really got to practice. However, a piano player can also handle synthesizer keyboards & sound great beyond a piano.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Yes, a piano is a good jumping off point and I learned to play guitar and then picked up a bit of piano from there.
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24 Feb 07
I wish I worked harder at learning the piano as a kid. I taught myself after my dad started me off with teaching me how to read music. I would love it for my girls to learn but we don't have any room for a piano at the moment, but once I can get rid of the pushchair etc in the house I'm hoping to find space for one.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Have you considered getting the kids a keyboard, they are getting cheaper and better all of the time and it is a good place for them to start.
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• Philippines
18 Mar 07
I wish I had the chance to learn the piano nback then. But my parents had nt had enough money to spare for formal piano lessons for me. I just hope I am not too old to learn it as soon as I earn substantial savings.
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I like your attitude...wanting to learn to play in spite of not starting as a kid.
@weemam (13372)
17 Mar 07
I never have myself , my 2 granddaughters can play the keyboard a little , my friend who is the organist in my Church teaches piano , and she loves doing it , but I am too old now to learn and too busy on My Lot too lol xx
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
18 Mar 07
You are never too old to learn. Learning to play the piano is still on my list of things to do. Let your friend begin to teach you. You may find it as a pleasant divergence from myLot
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
24 Mar 07
I wish I had the opportunity to play the piano as a child, but my parents couldn't afford it and I respected them for that, but maybe it was just as well I was totally useless at trying to learn to play an instrument, even a simple instrument like a recorder. I stuck to the tambourine and the triangle far easier! It is a great skill to have and I marvel at young players tickling the ivories.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I agree, I see kids play and I am evious, my rother adopted a little boy, who took piano lessons and at 5 he was performing songs that the 12 yo were struggling with. No stress, he is just so good at it..and I am so envious.
@GardenGerty (160949)
• United States
24 Feb 07
My sister, the oldest, had piano and voice lessons, even when we had not enough money for other bills and food. I never had any, would not express an interest in private lessons of any kind, because I would not want to take any money from the family. She has smoked til she has no voice, never has owned a piano. I played an instrument in school band, but was not overly talented. I think music increases learning, however, and I gave my kids lessons in various things when they wanted them. I am disappointed, a little, as my son wanted piano lessons at 4 and I was told that it was not suitable, wait til he was in school and could read. The thing is, he could read at four, and might have really been talented. By the time he was what they considered old enough, he was not interested in piano anymore.
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Your sister did not appreciate the gifts that she received.It is unfortunate. It is unfortunate that your son could not take lessons at 4, here is a link to a video of my nephew. He turned 6 about 2 years earlier. I tried to get my son to take lessons as 6, but he was into hockey not piano.
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
25 Feb 07
http://homepage.mac.com/debs_place/iMovieTheater2.html I suffer from dain bramage. Sorry, here is the link.
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• United States
23 Mar 07
I think it's up to the child as to which, if any, musical instruments they should "learn". I learned to play the clarinet and loved it. When my parents could no longer pay for the clarinet rental I was given a violin (yeah, figure that connection? LOL) and hated it. Then went to the guitar, hated it. I basically had a love for the clarinet and sax and loved it. To this day I have no desire to learn any other instrument. I remember crying when I gave my last solo as a grade school kid on the clarinet and my dad had tears in his eyes because I picked Amazing Grace to play as it is his favorite song. To this day he remembers me playing it and often says how he wishes he could have left me play.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I agree, kids can be given a choice, but it seems that most people took piano lessons or wanted to take piano lessons. I love the way the clarinet sounds, biolin is nice, but I cna understand your frustration wit the change. Love amazing grace
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
I'm a complete su**er for music, so I appreciate every instrument that I think I can be interested of playing!;) For now, I learned to play guitar, and I think I am good at it. I do find piano also interesting, but I only know some of it's basics. I did not took piano lessons then, back when I was a kid but I am eager to learn it if given a chance. I surely would have my kids take up piano lessons when the time comes, I would like them to appreciate more of what I think I didn't achieve. I want them to appreciate music, just like me!;)
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
7 Mar 07
I think kids who play piano alos learn to appreciate multiple styles of music. Which you don't get from listening to the radio.
@crazynurse (7482)
• United States
28 Feb 07
My grandmother was a concert pianist. I had free lessons at my fingertips. I took lessons for 2-3 years...but threw in the towel. I was a rebellious pre-teen who didn't want to just play classical music. She was a music lover who wouldn't allow 'crap' pop music. Today I could kick myself a thousand times for not sticking with my pinao lessons. My daughter has taken piano for 10 years and is a great pianist. She loves piano and all forms of music. She is proficient with a trumpet and several other instruments too! I just can't believe that I gave that up.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Have you considered starting up lessons again as an adult? I think a lot of kids get turned off by the type of music they play. While i love classical music, I think that kids should learn a mix, until they really love to play, then if they are serious about it. They can go on to more serious practice. I am glad your daugther is taking advantage of the opportunity you gave her. Good Job Mom!
@onabreak2 (1161)
• United States
24 Mar 07
My Mom was a pianist and thought that my sister and I should be good at it too. She played beautiful. I was lucky to plunk out chop sticks. The teacher finally told her she was wasting her money on me. Now I do wish I had paid attention and carried the piano onto my children to learn. But I didnt. I guess it just took more work then I was willing to spend time on at that young age.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
26 Mar 07
YOu can still earn...give it a shot...
@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
26 Mar 07
YOu can still earn...give it a shot...
@LiminaL (164)
• Italy
25 Feb 07
I have been taking piano lessons for quite a few years in the past. The all thing started very well, but then I've started taking distance: first of all I was pretty radical with my self and didn't was to study the thing for a half-I knew that only by doing it seriously I could find motivation to practice.I didn't have middle way views when I was 15! Anyway the way it is usually tought lacks of intelligence, it is too mecanical and teachers usually don't help intuition and perception at all.At a certain point the all thing seems to dictate low, instead of being involving. so the point is : yes, definitely stimulate kids to play and attend classes, but attention to the person you put them aside...some alternative musical thinker would be welcome. Music experience is anyway very precious
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
7 Mar 07
I agree...a creative teacher is needed and it can be a wonderful experience
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
i took piano lessons when i was in grade school. i even remember seeing my tutor everyday(he was our neighbor) and with his girlfriend, i do not remember the face, but he was soo cool and would even help my brothers with their assignments.
@AmbiePam (93894)
• United States
17 Mar 07
I took piano lessons for 8 years. I can still play, however I never do. I hated taking them and I hate to play the piano. I don't feel bad about not playing now because I told my parents then I didn't want to do it. To be fair, my school didn't have a whole lot of extracurricular activities and they wanted me to be involved in something. My sister on the other hand, took paino lessons for 8 years, complained about it, ended up loving it, and now has a BA and Masters in Music. On the side from her regular job, she gives private piano lessons. It all depends!
@davis123 (507)
• United States
24 Feb 07
i took piano lessonf for about 2 years i went every other thrusday and paid 15 dollars per lesson umm it didntrealy help me cuz im not that good i can play a little
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Did you take lessons as a kid or an adult. Did you practice.
• Philippines
6 Dec 07
i took piano lessons when i was a kid...around ten years old, i think. it wasn't my decision, but i didn't argue either. i actually had fun and was really into it. the problem was, i paid more attention to my piano classes and upcoming recitals that my academic grades were falling apart. my mother got me out of it. i was totally devastated. i love playing the piano. the lessons did help. i could still play today, although i want to take lessons all over again. and yeah, i would make my kids take piano lessons, or maybe i'll teach them myself.