How often do you think it is normal to make love with your partner?

I would say that you are fine. You don't need to worry about what is "normal" and what is not. You need to do what is right for you and your spouse. We all have times in our lives that certain things take the back burner. As long as you are still communicating with each other and doing other things together - I wouldn't worry about it. There are so many ways to show your affection for the other person. Some people are just more "active" then others.

Congratulations! Yes, because make love 8 times a day (also for young people) is really a high number! I agree with you that after many years time for love is not the same for the reason that you say (stress, work, kids, etc.) but, sorry to say that, once in three month... well that a very very very low number. You MUST find time for love (making love) in your life. So less post on MyLot next week and more time for you!

Oh my god eighteen times a day....do i believ you or are u playing up......well i am newly married and teh maximum e have done is 2 times a day....guess you have broken the record.

I think we have intimacy once every three days averagely. As you have said, when we have to work and need to handle daily matters, sometimes we just become too tired to do anything. We just don’t want to move. Moreover my wife sometimes is sick or not in the mood. When such things happen, we both stop the activities of making love with each other.

I think normalcy of this totally depends on various factors that affect the personal life .... like as rightly you mentioned stress, work, kids and million other things,, i am 23 now and enjoy a very healthy relationship with my girlfriend... we are prepared mentally for the middle age and later stages of love...."THATS TRUE" .. ^!^ also the fact that its not only about you but also about your partners expectations and limitations ... its not an easy question to answer but i would say enjoying the love making is more important .... it should not be a ritual sort of a thing... love making has special meanings attached to it.... be it 8 times a day or 80 times a month... eventually what matters is satisfaction in all those times

i do not see anything wrong with once in three months. But, I do not think you need to actually calculate how many times you do it. Just do it whenever and wherever you want and need to do it. But, eight times a day is really too much, is it with the same person ?

Perhaps you need something to spice things up again in your relationship. Why not take a trip out of town or just spend the night in a nice hotel as a treat. We all have to make time for our initimate encounters, otherwise they get lost in everyday life. I think once in 3 months is not normal, maybe once a month but 3 months sounds like you need some spice in the bedroom, just a suggestion.

Come on once in three months is really very very little for a person like who used to make it 8 times a day. Try to make atleast once in two days.

take a golden mean.... you're either in one left extreme or in the right.....

Wow. I don't think I have ever been to the point of more than twice in one day when I was younger. I think it is however often as you like to have it, would be fine. My husband and I have been together for 15 years now and married for 12 of those. There is a 15 year age difference between us. He is older than me. We also have a 15 year old daughter. He works alot of overtime and things are just so hectic, that we just don't have time, usually to think about the bedroom acts. Every now and then, things will settle down where we can have time for each other.

1 point me and my parner had it every day before we went to bed,now its like once in a blue moon. :o(

LOL I know the feeling. I think that what's ok is what works for both of you. There is no set number that makes it ok or not ok. I know how hectic life is with the kids and stress and all. For me, taking some time just the two of us every once in a while helps balance the stress and make things a bit more "normal " in my life. And when things are not that hectic, we certainly are more motivated :)

You can do it as many times as you wish but if you find exhausted than reduce it to the extent where you don't get exhausted.Once in 3 months? Insure your partner is not embarased.One advise frequency is too low in my opinion as a doctor. Slowly you will start loosing potency & once you cross the limits it will be point of no return. It should be on week ends atleast but twice in a month will do great. I have assumed your age to be around 42/43.

Oh i understand ur concern but love makin just cant be getting totally physical attimes but yes physical involvement is must as no buddy is god to understand wat u behlod in heart for him or her so express it as more as u can and make ur loved one feel loved it can be hugs or carressing or simply holding hands its how u convey and how ur partner takes it,,,,but yes its very essential to keep relationship agile and genial.

I am not middle age, But I am married and have three kids. I will tell you, we dont do things as much as we would like to. Like you said, things like life, kids and everything else gets in the way. We love eachother very much though. I wouldnt say there is a normal. Its what ever your can and want to do. We use to do it several times a day also. Now we make sure at least once a week.

I would not be satisfieed with 4 times a year =) That is just tooo little no matter how long you have been together.. however if that´s satisfaction to both u and the partner are ok with it, then it´s ok. I know I wouldn´t though =)

My husband and I had been together for 11 years and married for 9 years !! There is 13 years between us , he works night shift from 7.00pm - 4.00 am Sunday - Thursday , so that give me Friday or Satruday when we are together to make love !! usually it is a Friday !! Once a week is enough for me plus , we apreciate each other more !!

It's normal do it every time both of partners want to do it. It's not right telling you once a day, two times a day, 7 times a week or other. It depends from your relationship, from the job the partners do and from their habits. If they do it one time a week it begin to became a problem. One time a month is better stop relationship

i think that if the partners have understanding among themselves, then it is not wrong to make love

try make always love with ur partner