Boys ...is this the one?

Romania
February 25, 2007 5:52am CST
What's a reliable way to know if someone's right for you?There isn't one.How do you know for sure if you're ready to settle down?Who knows?...Thanks! :)
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• Philippines
25 Feb 07
My husband is my only boyfriend i ever had. I feel that he is the one because i am at ease being with him all the time. I am open to him. I dedicated my whole life to him and to my kids right now. Being with somebody who cares for you, believes you and protect you is the best partner you will ever have. Not don't forget somebody that you love most.
@sebab315 (108)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
i can relate very well with you ariannelexi. my husband's my first & last boyfriend. i guess it's not really so much about looking for the right guy as knowing in our hearts what we really wanted in a relationship. congratz. lucky U!:-)
25 Feb 07
I think it is very difficult to know. In the end you just have to trust your instincts. Get to know the guy as well as you can and spend lots of time together and then you will know whether you want to settle down with him.
• Romania
25 Feb 07
thanks! ;)
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 07
Is he Mr.Right ? - Book of finding your "Mr.Right"
that kind of things is not a calculation stuff which mean nobody know who is the right one or not, its all depends on how you feel.when the time is come you will know it ur self.while me....i also didnt know befor that my husband will be the right one for me, i even feel doubt with our relationship eventhough its already going on for years but in the end when we decided to get married all the doubt i have has gone and i only feel happiness inside:) then i'm sure that he is Mr.right for me...he is the one:)
@ghopit (154)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 07
for the first we can make sure about it. but in the end your feeling would tell you about it. just wait and see.
@sebab315 (108)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
i guess there is no reliable way. there's always that risk he's not the one. but if it feels "right", he's maybe the one. somehow, we just have to trust our instincts and pray. if he can be your bestfriend he's maybe the one for you.:-)
• India
25 Feb 07
u cant decide whether a person is fit for u or not untill u spend time with him. if he or she makes big changes in him or her then u may have the right guy or girl. when u realize that ur partner is worried more about u than himself, its a sign of true love. however u cant test love. settling down should be decided on the basis of financial stability and in the right age. if someone loves u he will not tell u to marry him unless he is financially secured. i dont mean to say that money is most important. but the one who thinks more of ur happiness is the one who truely loves u.