How Can Money Have Had Such An Effect On The Family??
By kathy77
@kathy77 (7486)
Australia
February 25, 2007 2:47pm CST
It shouldn't be that way. But, it wasn't the money that caused the problem - it was the over spending. If you spend more than you earn it will eventually catch up with you. It is simply a matter of time. Happily, the reverse is also true. If you spend less than you earn, your savings will grow. You will be able to reap the benefits and enjoy the security of having a large wad of cash in the bank. Here are some of the things I do to make sure we always spend less then we earn: We watch very little TV. Minimising the amount of TV you watch actually makes it easier to stick within your budget, because the less you see, the less you want! And, because our children are not bombarded with television ads, they are not always hassling us for the latest toy. Switch your credit card for a debit card. We got rid of our credit card five years ago, so neither of us can get ourselves into trouble. When our money runs out, it simply runs out! Limit the amount of money in your everyday account. Matt and I worked out that our basic household budget is $800 per month. At the start of each month, this sum gets transferred into my account. It makes me think about my purchases and plan for the month, because I hate having to ask for more than my budgeted amount. It is like admitting failure. Limit the cash in your wallet. I'm fine if the money is in my bank account. It can stay there for weeks, but if it makes it to my wallet, it disappears. So, I don't keep money in my wallet. Delay, delay, delay! The longer you can delay buying items, the lower your overall expenses will be. For example, I really wanted a colour laser printer last November. (The Wealthy Habits calendar looked so good, I wanted to print lots of them and give them to everyone!) But we delayed and procrastinated, the urge went away and $1100 stayed in our bank account. Be content with what you have. If something still functions and it is safe then keep using it. Don't rush out and buy a new one until you really CAN afford it (meaning you have no debts). For example, our dining table is not gorgeous, but it's solid and it works. We'll continue using it until we find someone giving away something nicer, find an amazing second hand bargain or we genuinely have spare money and nothing more important to spend it on. These are some of the things I do on a day to day basis to protect my family from money troubles. To find out more about how other people keep their expenses low, surf through the Vault. It only costs $47 to join and you will make that money back pretty fast.
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12 responses
@rx4life (1930)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Great suggestions, Kathy..I am a happier person when I delay the big purchases...because even if I end up buying it out of need...I usually find a better price on it than I would if just coming upon it and impulse buying with no research...I like your budget tips...it's so true...it feels like failure if you exceed the agreed amount of expenditure...and it becomes a little challenge that makes it all more interesting...Of course I have to say that it's easier to follow that budget when I know there is extra money if I needed it...It can be really stressful for those that CAN'T ask for more because it isn't there.. Great thoughts, Kathy...thanks!!!:)
@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
I agree with you, money often cause family troubles especially if the couple don't know how to budget their monthly earnings and set some priorities...and this post of yours is really helpful especially to those who are just starting up to build a family or those who wanted to get over from a previous money conflicts...and I'd be concidering these tips when I'll have a family of my own soon.. thanks :)
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
26 Feb 07
Money isn't the problem, it's the way people handle it that gets them into trouble. My sweetheart and I were just discussing that. He told me how he learned to handle money, and I told him how I was raised to handle money correctly. Either way, we are both in total agreement about how the money will be handled.
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@sophisticated (43)
• India
26 Feb 07
I agree. Its right at the end of the day I find my wallet empty. Its safer to keep money in my bank account. Thanks for the suggestion.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
25 Feb 07
Well I do agree this is very good advise and I do hope that one Day I will be able to take it as my Ex Husband left me with a lot of Debt when we split up so that I could keep the House I would keep the Debts to and I am still trying to get on my Feet now.
@Bizziebod (3497)
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26 Feb 07
Hi Kathy, you have made some excellent points here and would hope that it might at least help one person. Years ago I think everything I owned had been given to me or brought second hand to save money and my motto always is 'if it aint broke don't fix it' My fridge freezer and my settee are both on their last legs and although I can afford to replace both if I want I wont until either one just can't be used any more, so even if you're not on a budget buying new things for the heck of it is still wasting money! Thanks for your discussion :-)
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
26 Feb 07
You gave me some great ideas, thank you, I am really bad about saving. If I have money I spend it. I don't have credit cards because I know I would use them but I still can't manage to actually "save". LOL the table got me laughing. Mine is looking pretty bad and I don't have anything but folding chairs. I started on a mission to see who was throwing away wood dining chairs - I now have a collection of 4 different chairs but each is "unique" I'm looking for more come spring when the garage sales start up again. Back to my table though - found a $2 table cloth, really nice one at Goodwill and that table is beautiful.