How soon should you tell someone you love them?

@bluegem (174)
Dominican Republic
February 26, 2007 3:00pm CST
I met a really sweet guy about 3 months ago. I enjoy being with him. As a matter of fact I feel like I love him. Do u think its too soon to tell him so?
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9 responses
• India
26 Feb 07
bluegem there r relations which never lasted for being together for yrs.At the same time there are relations which lasted for being together for yrs.So i wud suggest its not that how much u knw him.Its like how much u feel for him.for the last three months was he in ur thoughts every second...How much do u think he thinks about u.What is the level of attraction u too have.i knw a couple who jus met once on a train journey and they ended up marryin each other..recently they have celebrated there 60th anniversary.So i wud say love can happen nytime,anywhere,The feelin jus has to be mutual..wat say? so jus go ahead if u both feel the same way
• India
26 Feb 07
dont worry blue..u gonna rock..jus be calm n look for the right time and say him u love and u care for him,,,
@bluegem (174)
• Dominican Republic
26 Feb 07
u give me hope!
• Philippines
26 Feb 07
kinda soon. you can tell him you like him though. so in a way he knows you got special feelings, without freaking him out
@bluegem (174)
• Dominican Republic
26 Feb 07
thanks, i told him that already though!
@ashuaaaaa (783)
• Germany
26 Feb 07
i feel love needs time and 3 months is nothing. recently my friend who was liking a guy and was seeing from six months had heart break. i will say just go slowly, enjoy the time and develop deep understanding first.
@bluegem (174)
• Dominican Republic
26 Feb 07
thank u... i appreciate ur response!
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
26 Feb 07
I do not believe that you can not know enough to know if you love them. People can carry a deception on for quite a while and you need to be able to look at this person and say I love him just exactly the way he is, there is no but, no need to change him in any way, and the same goes for the fellow, as this is a two Way street. because the minute you require some one to change you make them lie to you. So if after a year you feel that way then you can express your feelings but I wouldn't advise before that.
@bluegem (174)
• Dominican Republic
26 Feb 07
thats an interseting way to look at it!
• United States
26 Feb 07
I think I'll only do it if I'm sure he feels the same way about me too...else, it will be so embarassing!! And probably spoil the friendship. Not to mention, scare the guy away! I would take it slow and maybe drop some small hints or say things like "I really like you a lot" and see what he says and how he acts in return.
@bluegem (174)
• Dominican Republic
26 Feb 07
I'v e done that. He always responds the same way, "I really like you a lot too, you're cute!" Do u think he's shallow?
@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
26 Feb 07
Do you think you know what love is? Do you think you realise what is that you cant live without and what is that you cant live with? Do you think you can change yourself entirely for a person like that? Life is extremely short to waste it... are you sure you are not wasting your emotions in a person that doesnt deserve it... or wasted your time already by not proposing him...? if all answers are in positive than go for it ... best of luck
@bluegem (174)
• Dominican Republic
26 Feb 07
you've certainly got me thinking! mmmm thanks
• United States
26 Feb 07
i've always heard to never tell a guy you love him until he tells you first. it may make it awkward for you and may push him away. it may be too soon but it's hard to tell because i don't know you or him.
• India
26 Feb 07
well the first thing to keep in mind is the present mood of his/her boyfriend/girlfriend..... then if it is good make it even better by taking him/her out somewhere along,maybe on a long drive,and then to alonly place and with a romatic song playing by ......... stare ur patnr and catch his/her hand and then say it.......... he/she will surely accept
• United States
2 Feb 12
Hmm, I know someone that once that told me that after one week of knowing her! lol And I believed it :(