8 years old, 89 kilos heavy

8 years old, 89 kilos heavy - http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/2/story.cfm?c_id=2&objectid=10426155
New Zealand
February 27, 2007 2:17pm CST
Connor McCreaddie, an 8 years old boy from Newcastle, weighs 89kg and will not eat healthy food like fruits and vegetables - he only eats junk food. He is four times the healthy weight of his peers and was even heavier before Christmas. His 35-year-old mother was prompted to seek help but rejected a suggestion that she put a lock on the fridge. Health authorities are concerened. http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/2/story.cfm?c_id=2&objectid=10426155 What would you do if this were your child?
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@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
3 Mar 07
This is really such a sad situation. I haven't heard anything recently, but I originally heard that Child Protective Services was involved and they were considering removing him from his mother's care. The picture shows such a loving mother & son relationship, doesn't it? I can't imagine any mother not being overwhelmed with concern for this child, and I have a feeling that she has tried to get him to eat right. Unfortunately, his eating habits were most likely atrocious from the time he began eating solid food, and they are very much ingrained in him. He definitely needs some psychological help and an intensive nutritional program. He may even benefit from an inpatient stay at a hospital that specializes in eating disorders. If the Mom is trying, then I don't see it as neglect or abuse. I don't know that I would put a lock on the refrigerator, either. That seems drastic and rather degrading. This kid needs to learn how to eat properly, not to be locked out of the fridge. I can only imagine how much ridicule this poor kid is dealing with on a daily basis.
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@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
4 Mar 07
You're right, the mother is going to have to step up to the plate here. We can't expect an 8 year old child to understand the implications of what is happening or of his eating behaviors. I would love to hear an interview with the mother to see where she is coming from. Maybe Oprah can get them on her show! I still think that as a mother she has to be concerned about her child. It looks as if she's a normal body weight from the picture, so it has to be obvious to her that something is wrong here. I hope that with the media and legal attention she has received they will get the help that this child needs.
• New Zealand
4 Mar 07
Generous as usual! Thank you Laurie. The pathos of the situation is really overwhelming. All we have on hand are the media reports. Comments plucked out of statements, and made to mean something that sells? It is fairly clear, sifting through the media verbiage that: 1. The mother is unaware of the current thinking about quality of food. ( In a part of Africa where I have lived, mothers actually promote deep fried meat and veggies as a desirable thing - because oil is expensive and it is a certain elite that can "afford" fried food. The poor eat boiled) 2. When the matter was brought to the attention of the Health Authorities and the local Council, the mother turned defensive and belligerent in the first instance. Your point about locking the refrigerator is valid - More than anything else, this raises issues about the responsibility of caregivers. Now that the child is an object of media attention, I cannot even begin to imagine how we could have coped with the attention, if one of my two boys were in that situation. The remedy may lie with the mother in this case I think.
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• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
1 Mar 07
I read about this and watched in the news on tv, how horrible! he is huge, and worst of all is that if he keeps this way his health will resent sooner or later. Someone should teach him how to eat properly.
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• New Zealand
2 Mar 07
His caregiver has primary responsibility. Either she herself is so insulated that she has no understanding of nutrition, or she is totally apathetic. Either way - I wonder if this is a form of cruelty.
@perugu (5279)
• India
28 Feb 07
hi,If it would be happened in my children case,first,i will start adopting methods to reduce weight,within my hands like,fresh food,less fatty food,small exercises etc.More than that,i will consult qualified doctor.
• United States
27 Feb 07
wow
@lols189 (4742)
27 Feb 07
i would make him do lots of exercise and seriously only give him healthy foods then at least he might eat it if thats the only option. that is disgusting for an 8 yr old child, he seriously needs help regarding his health
• New Zealand
1 Mar 07
I wonder if it is the child or the mother that needs the education first!
• India
2 Mar 07
awww he looks so cute. if its natural weight he has its fine. i think it would reduce as he grows with a little diet care. my brother's son is 4 and half years old and about 35 kg. he looks similar to the one in the pic and with lot of difficulty he walks and sits lol.
• United States
27 Feb 07
As a parent, I would definitely try my best to help my child get their weight under control. I try to encourage my kids to eat as healthy as possible but we do enjoy snacks and fast food sometimes.