do u go for the brains or the looks?

Pardon my ego but I go for both! I have to think about my offsprings... lol

I much much much prefer brains. I can't stand idiots. Also, my physical attraction standards are much different than a societal norm. I'm physically attracted to the "nerd" type, anyway.

I HAVE to have both...no exception. A beautiful face with nothing to say doesn't work for me. And I want someone I feel physically attracted to also. So, both are equally important to me.

Give me brains over looks any day. Looks can become boring but brains will keep my attention forever. I will approach a woman I find attractive but if I eventually find out that's all there is I don't view her the same way anymore. I usually know who I'm interested in before we actually date.

I have to be attracted to the person first. Now that being said, what I find attractive and what you do are two different things... Sometimes the attraction is a chemical or phermonal thing, I think. I can't stand people that are good looking but dumb as a door. If they don't have the brain to back it up, I am outta there.

I honestly choose brains over looks. Looks really don't matter. Its actually whats on the inside that counts.

my usual answer to that would be the looks. Of course, how could you bear yourself to be *smoochin* with someone, if he has loose teeth or whatever, but now, I came to realize, it's not really about the look that makes you attracted to a particular person... it's the wholeness of the person.