Why is it that when u ignore someone,he/she realizes ur importance????
@HumsafarMandeep (691)
February 28, 2007 8:59am CST
yes, i have noticed this quite a few times in my life for generally all the people who surrounded me.But this time the case was a lil different,i thought it was childish of me to ignore people and then when they come back to me,,i felt that i mean important to them.
But i m grown up now, a matured in my 22. But still i felt the same thing,, the person to whom i always wanted to talk to,whenver i got the chance i messaged.
But never really got half of the time of what i waited for that person.
then i accepted the fact and stopped messaging and contacting,and to remind me again of the childish things, i saw many offlines of that person on all my messengers,,,i was pleased...
But now it makes me thinks,when i was there,with her she never realized my value,,and when i was away not in touch she missed me..... shall i get back into wat i was,,???
What if i she will again do the same to me,,,, i think better is to not to go after her,,,,atleast when she will message me that she missed me,,it gives a nice feeling,that someone misses me,and i mean dat much to her.
But i m also scared of loosing that friend also if i keep ignoring her,,,,,
what shall i do???
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5 responses
@rogen_andrei (638)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
I agree with you, it's only when something is already gone in your life that you come to realize how important it is or they are. And there comes your regrets for not giving attention to what you once had and you go start wishing you could turn back time and have them in your life again... things like this really happens.. and in your case, I guess you've already felt that you're important to your friend when she left you a couple of offline messages... i guess there's no point punishing both of you like trying not to communicate that often...that would only worsen the situation, I believe.. I guess friendship is not about who's the winner or who gives much attention to the other, it's about understanding why things are happening that way and meeting half way to keep your friendship going.
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
28 Feb 07
Most people don't realize what they have til they loose it or almost loose it. Than they begin to appreciate what they had to begin with. I know my husband was that way. I dated him for two years. Than broke up with him. When he seen me date someone else is when he realized he loved me and couldn't live with out me. We are not married with two children. We have been together for twelve years.
@harivamsi11 (125)
• India
28 Feb 07
Well it is obvious that we dont realise the importance of one person in presence of him If he is away from us then we realise the importance of he/she..
In cricket also same thing happens when some important player is missing in team If that match was lost by that team...
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
28 Feb 07
Good question.My girlfriend told me that ignoring her was the reason that made her like me more ,the more i ignored her,the more she came after me
@torque20 (57)
• India
28 Feb 07
well ur exactly right that absence of a person really hurts us
but u shud not ignore her
may b she realized her mistake
and missing u a lot !!!
start talking t her again an wait fr the type of response she gives u
after all she ur friend
u know something...........
it takes years an years to make relationships
but it takes few seconds t break them
so calm down ,be cheerful an talk t her!!!!!!!
