Taking Conservation to Far or Out of The Mouths of Babes

United States
February 28, 2007 9:00am CST
A friend was telling me that she had some kids at her house and one little girl had to use the restroom. She was 5 yrs old and and my friend was kind of listening to make sure everything was OK. So the little girl came out after a few minutes and my friend said "you forgot to flush" little girl replied "oh I only did a peepee and we dont flush until the water is real yellow as my mom says we have to save money and water"!!! What do you think of that?? It can't be healthy!
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• United States
28 Feb 07
Wow. I think that is taking conservation a little bit too far. I recognize the need to save on water usage and am respectful of that, however, you are correct that it isn't sanitary for to let a toilet go that long without flushing. Besides, flushing a toilet doesn't waste that much water...it is running the water continuously in the sink that does more harm. Maybe it is more of a money issue with this little girls mom, but even then, I can't see it costing that much to flush a toilet. Hmmm, what did your friend say to the little girl in response? I don't know what I would have done, other than go in and flush the toilet.
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• United States
28 Feb 07
That's exactly what she did, she didn't say anything.
@emisle (3822)
• Ireland
28 Feb 07
the girls mother should put a brick in the cistern so that way everytime the toilet is flushed only a fraction of the water is used.
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@prestocaro (1251)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I don't practice this at my house, but i know many who do. the rule is "if it's yellow, let it mellow; if it's brown, flush it down". Urine is actually perfectly sterile. Most of the time when you are in a public bathroom, the cleanest place is the toilet seat, because it regularly is sprayed with microbeads of urine. I know it's gross to think about, but it is true. It poses no health risks to young children -- as long as all that is allowed to sit in the bowl is urine -- and it really does save money and preserve clean water. every time you flush, a treatment facility has to process that water, wasting electricity and valuable filtration space. It's gross, but it makes sense.
@wmg2006 (5381)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Well I personally will pay the extra to flush, because this is how I taught. For others I know exactly where this came from. When an area is in a drought and lack of water is a concern this is one of the first things the Governor of that state will mention. Do not flush unless absolutely necessary. If a person gets in the habit of not flushing because of droughts then it just sticks and they continue to do this so as not to cause another drought. I live in an area that bans the use of water at different times during the summer months, but I will continue to flush no matter what.
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• Ireland
28 Feb 07
I know that is disgusting but I can add to it. I had a friend or rather an acquaintance and she was always penny pinching. Not alone would she tell her children not to flush the toilet, but all hell would break lose if they let the bath water out before everybody had their bath. Their was five in the family and they all used the same bath water in order to save on electricity. I don't visit her anymore as I would be afraid of catching something.
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• United States
28 Feb 07
Now that is gross. To bathe in someone else dirty water is too disgusting.
@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I used to babysit for some people when I was a teenager. The first time I babysat one of the kids said when I came out of the bathroom, "did you poop?" I said no, why? She said cause you don't have to flush unless you poop. Mamma will flush it when she comes home and goes to bed. I thought that was strange. I don't really think it saves that much water to not flush. It certainly can't be good to have old urine sitting in the toilet for god knows how long....eeewwwww
• United States
28 Feb 07
hhhmmm, wonder what Al Gore does? wonder if his $2,000+/- monthly utility bill includes flushes?
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• United States
28 Feb 07
Thank you both. That was funny now perhaps when the media has said enough about his electric bill they will start on his water bill!!! LOL
• United States
28 Feb 07
I'm sure Al Gore flushes, his wife would make sure he does! Women, at least most women, have a fit over the lid being left up, can you imagine having a bowl full of pee?????
@Lindalinda (4111)
• Canada
28 Feb 07
Well I think it is so unsanitry and it must stink up the house too. I know water is very expensive and we should not waste it, but there are toilets that use only half the tank and other gadgets that you can insert in your toilet tank that save water. I have heard of people who do not flush the toilet if they have to pee in the night so they don't wake other people up, but even that would bother me, if I was the first one in the morning to use the toilet.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 Feb 07
Yes that is very unhealthy and I certainly do not agree that it should be like that. She is putting the Children at risk as so many Germs will accumilate in that toilet.
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• United States
28 Feb 07
prestocaro thanks for the info. I never knew that.
• United States
28 Feb 07
urine is completely sterile. due to it's high pH, it is incapable of supporting any kind of bacterial life. Feces, on the other hand, are full of bacteria and viruses (e.coli, rhotovirus, etc.) -- but a toilet bowl with nothing but urine in it is sterile. so is a toilet seat with urine on it.
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
1 Mar 07
theres nothing wrong with that at all...When I was in Labouire St.Lucia I stayed with "family" and thats how they do it too...you only flush when its really yellow OR if you've had a poop...
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
1 Mar 07
We also showered in cold water too which was shocking to the flesh first thing in the morning lol....and actually they turned the valve to the toilet OFF come to think of it...then when it was time to flush the pee or if you pooped you would turn it on, flush then turn it off again..
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
1 Mar 07
I would say very unhealthy and Water really dont cost that much. To depends on the womens money how much she hs but I would think that flushing wouldnt hurt her budget to much
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
1 Mar 07
we had out houses back a few years ago that never got flushed ha ha but they were way aaway from the house and we would put Lye in it to eat all the bactiera away
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@classy56 (2880)
• United States
28 Feb 07
your right its not healthy,to have urine sitting in a tolet.it ashame a little girl have to say those things that her mom is teaching her.it dont cost that much to flush tolets.it would cost more if a child got sick from smelling it all the time.
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@tad1fan (3367)
• Canada
28 Feb 07
I agree,it can't be healthy.....if people want to teach their kids things like this,that's fine but you have to also teach them how to behave outside the home.....explain to them that it's ok to do this at home,just not at other peoples homes
• United States
28 Feb 07
I agree you should tell them that what you do at home is OK at home.
@tad1fan (3367)
• Canada
28 Feb 07
Exactly!
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• United States
1 Mar 07
When I was 9 or 10 we lived in a trailer wile our house was being built on our property. We had to haul our own water and use it very very sparingly! We lived there for about 10 months while our hoome was built and our well was drilled. We took 5 minute showers, Did not flush unless we went #2 and alot of other things as well I won't hurt anything, It is just a way of conserving water,no harm in it. ( a little gross but not harmful)
• United States
28 Feb 07
If it's yellow, let it mellow. If it's brown, flush it down. Ever heard that before? Flushing the toilet uses several gallons of water each time you do it. The health risks of letting urine sit in the toilet are minute considering that chances are, you are someone else will be going again shortly.
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@MySpot (2600)
• United States
1 Mar 07
Flushing does use a lot of water, actually. The comment on response #1 is a good tip for using less water.((brick)) They also make toilets that use only a small fraction of water, in comparisson to most. My Mom has one and she said it saves her a lot of money in water bills. I'm unsure of the health risks, if any. My concern would be about the feces that are being splashed up onto my bum, EEeewww!
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
1 Mar 07
When I was very young, I remember neighbours doing that, as they were very poor. It's not something I would ever practise, unless quite desperate to save water. We are on water restrictions, and never has this been suggested.
@crazynurse (7482)
• United States
1 Mar 07
Flushing does use a lot of water. If there is going to be someone else to use the facility within the next hour or so, there is really no harm. As another poster has already posted, urine is sterile and doesn't readily grown bacteria due to its pH. The only thing that not flushing would cause might be an odor! In times of draught, not flushing unless someone has a BM is standard.
• United States
28 Feb 07
Well yuck! Sometimes during the summer when our well is at the lowest we will save the bath water and use that to flush with but we still flush everytime.
@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
1 Mar 07
"If it's yellow then let it mellow. If it plops then let it drop"...not my words, but something I heard long ago.
• Canada
1 Mar 07
Ewwww, that sounds real gross! I have to say I really think thats taking conservation WAY too far! I do believe we all should do our bit, including recycling where we can and so on, but not to the point that it's going to be a health risk.