when do you get angry most?
By lovedude
@lovedude (4447)
India
9 responses
@mnflower (1299)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Anger is an emotional response to encroachment upon ones dignity, which leads to disagreement, dispute or conflict. with that being said I have to say I don't let alot of people anger me for I myself will not allow any person inflict such pain upon me..I may get upset with someone if they lie or cheat but I will not let them take it as far as to get me angry for if I do that then they win...
no two people are the same so there will always be disagreement everywhere in life it is how we act upon this disagreement that leads us to be angered.
@creativedreamweaver (7297)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I would have to agree with you there, I think that I get angrier when someone lies to me than any other thing. I also get really angry when someone betrays my trust. It is very hard for me to allow people to get close to me, so when I do, trust is a major issue for me.
@desimanero (419)
• United States
28 Feb 07
yes lying...but i really hate and it really confuses me when a guy says he loves you SOOOO much and he cries to you and says he needs you in his life BUT he goes out and cheats and lies and then when hes busted he cries.What the heck is up with that?
@catch_me (930)
• India
28 Feb 07
People get angry because of their Ego (in the psychological sense). As children we are very self centred, and we can only survive if we are the centre of attention. Thus one of the first survival forces is driving us to be noticed. As we get older we learn to repress/sublimate this for the many advantages of group existence. Many people of course fail to do this, to one extreme or another. The most extreme form is the socio- path, who puts their needs ahead of anyone elses. A much more common form is that childish anger reasserting itself when we can't get our own way, or when people disagree with our core beliefs and values. To overcome this anger two things at least are essential. One, an understanding of why we get angry; call it self awareness.Second, the development of self discipline to control the anger or find a suitable expression for it.. Others might argue that if we were less selfish or better people we would not get angry, and yet it is an expression of a survival trait that was hot wired into us either through evolution, or as an element of our creation.
@catch_me (930)
• India
28 Feb 07
People get angry because of their Ego (in the psychological sense). As children we are very self centred, and we can only survive if we are the centre of attention. Thus one of the first survival forces is driving us to be noticed. As we get older we learn to repress/sublimate this for the many advantages of group existence. Many people of course fail to do this, to one extreme or another. The most extreme form is the socio- path, who puts their needs ahead of anyone elses. A much more common form is that childish anger reasserting itself when we can't get our own way, or when people disagree with our core beliefs and values. To overcome this anger two things at least are essential. One, an understanding of why we get angry; call it self awareness.Second, the development of self discipline to control the anger or find a suitable expression for it.. Others might argue that if we were less selfish or better people we would not get angry, and yet it is an expression of a survival trait that was hot wired into us either through evolution, or as an element of our creation.
@lovemydsdominik (282)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I would also have to agree, I get so mad when I am lied to! it's like, do you think I'm stupid? or am I just not important enough to deserve the truth? I hate the habitual liars out there who seem to lie about everything, even stupid stuff, I can't stand people like that. If you have to lie about something you're doing, then maybe you shouldn't do it!