What if someone you do not like was chasing after you, relentlessly?
By bluegem
@bluegem (174)
Dominican Republic
February 28, 2007 10:09pm CST
What would you do if a guy kept chasing after u even though you told him to leave you alone? What if he kept on sending you gifts and love notes? How would you handle a situation like that? Would you send the gifts back or would you keep the ones you like? Let me hear your views!
5 responses
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
1 Mar 07
This is kind of a tough one, because if you keep the gifts you are sending the wrong signals, but at the same time, why should you have to go through the trouble or expense of sending them back to him.
If you are serious about this guy leaving you alone, then you need to make it clear to him that you don't want anything from him and that you will be forced to take more serious measures if he does not leave you alone. This is harrassment and it needs to stop.
Yet, no one, no matter how big of a creep should be led on and have their heart broken. He may not admit it now, but it seems that he is trying to woo you with gifts and eventually the payment may come up do. So don't get to attached to those gifts.
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@andrika (386)
• Indonesia
1 Mar 07
she already told him about not wasting money. so, girl, so be it. he will get bored if you only silence him
@florenciascorner (381)
• United States
1 Mar 07
maybe if he's so far away he's not really chasing you. I would not be spending money to return the gifts but i would keep telling him not to send me anything. Anything he does after that is up to him.
@earth2jacq (1502)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
I would definitely send all his gifts back to him as keeping even one item may signal that you like him too. I hope he would not turn out to be a stalker and follow you around. I remember I have this suitor when I was in grade school he tried to court me when we were in grade 5 until 4th year high school....I don't like him I never did, just not my type. I don't read his love letters, I actually throw it in the trash when he is looking hopinf for him to stop. I give him back his gifts. It is rude I know but he is annoying me by being stubborn and not just accept that I don't like him. Oh and by the way I think he deserves my rudeness because he ruined my first dance during the prom. He asked me to dance first before my crush so he ended up being my first dance!
@coppertop1 (44)
• United States
1 Mar 07
You actually have a great situation here. If i were you i would take the gifts and let him shower you with anything you want. Eventually people will start making fun of him and he will start to leave you alone. For the time being though you will get lots of free stuff
